u/Ok_Blackberry_7650

My husband and I own two homes, we have a beach house a few hours away. My son usually takes his children there over the summer and stays for the summer, and they enjoy their summer vacation there.

This year my daughter is getting married at the end of June, she wanted to spend her honeymoon at this beach house. It would be more of convenient vacation money wise. She had asked my husband and I, and we of course agreed. I told my son the next time I spoke to him, and he got upset and said that I know his family goes there every summer. I told him it’d only be for a week, and they could come after or before. He said that is cutting their time short, and that the kids only get two months off for summer vacation. I explained more of the situation, and he said she could honeymoon anywhere and if they couldn’t afford it they should have thought about that before having a big wedding.

We got into a small argument because he says that’s their tradition and that we know they do it every single year and how much the kids like it and we’re going to be disappointed. He then said the least we could have done was speak to him before hand since summer is right around the corner and that had been their plan. AITA

Hey everyone, new to this sub but I (33M) just needed to get this out since of course we're not telling anybody just yet. My wife (32F) just told me last night and I'm both excited and terrified. When I was much younger (high school) I experienced a miscarriage in a prior relationship and didn't realize how much that affected me until last night. We're foster parents and have had every stage of child so far from newborn to young adult, so parenting isn't too much of a concern. Really just looking for advice, encouragement, or anything you can offer going through pregnancy for the first time married. I appreciate you all.

Quick edit to add ages and I'll also add that we had been struggling with conceiving for almost a year, eventually just said F it whatever happens happens and now we're here.