u/Ok_Blacksmith2464

Maybe this might just me. I always get jasmine passion fruit tea with strawberry popping pearls. I don’t get boba often but I usually get it as a sweet treat and it didn’t occur to me that my stomach hurts a LOT after drinking it until today. I got my usual order from a boba shop in the mall.. I just started experiencing stomach cramps and pains from the drink after an hour, and it hurts more than I’ve ever felt. Does anyone else experience this problem or is my stomach just weird??

I don’t wanna stop drinking my favorite drink but I suppose I’ll have to until I figure this out.

I’m in search of a QPP and before anyone starts, NO THIS IS NOT AN AD. I’m venting about something that has been bugging me, which is the fact that I always attract people who are already in romantic relationships. Why??? I EXPLICITLY STATE I do not wanna be in a QPR with someone who’s already dating, romantic or platonic. What the hell am I missing here?? Do I have to display a shit ton of emojis around that fact to get it through their heads? I’m genuinely so irritated ITS NOT EVEN FUNNY ANYMORE 😭😭

Just typing down what I’ve realized about my aromantic identity. Back in February, I dated this girl that I met on a dating app.. Everything was fine until she kissed my cheek on the second date, which I thought was way too fast. However, I didn’t feel a spark - Not of flattery, not of shock, not of confusion, just nothing. I pushed it aside and therefore, we continued dating even though, deep down, a romantic relationship wasn’t what I wanted. Queerplatonic relationships have always been my get-go despite only having one between the time I found out about QPRs (2025) and now. As we continued dating with boundaries established and slowing down, I still felt no spark with her. Not when she kissed me, not when she cuddled me, not when she held my hand. I felt better if we were friends doing this but that would never happen in this reality.

This isn’t the first time that’s happened. This goes with online relationships too. The idea is fun and thrilling but when interest is shown (or not, even), the demand and amount of time and energy it takes to build a romantic relationship drains me very much. Because of those online relationships, I thought I didn’t feel attraction simply because it was online so, in February, that’s when I tried IRL dating .. which didn’t work out in the end. I don’t mind not dating anyone - Glad, even. I prefer someone to call my own best friend, my number one, with less expectations and restrictions. Someone I can do things with, romantic actions or not, without romantic intent. I thrive on emotional and spiritual connection, something that lacked, one way or another, in my dating life.

redoing this bc i’ve had very little to no luck. i’ll take some friend applications too :,)

***about me***!

my name is max. i am a 19 yr old nonbinary mexican-american who lives in the south!! i am a digital artist, fanfic reader, pc gamer, roleplayer, writer and somewhat of a photographer. i am shamelessly swimming in a lot of fandoms and i tend to fixate on them a lot! my behavior can get a bit disorganized so please bare with me 🥲

***fandoms***
life is strange, left 4 dead 2, metalocalypse, red dead redemption 2, steven universe, overwatch, okko lets be heroes, wakfu, good omens, and some whenever my memory refreshes!

***what i am looking for***
i *HEAVILY* prefer if u were to live somewhere in the USA, especially in the south that would be an awesome bonus. i’d prefer if you were around 18-22 years old! i am looking for a mono qpr as i am aroace (aromantic and demi-sexual) as well as monogamous - i am not willing to be in a qpr with someone who is polyam or looking for a potential romantic relationship with me or someone else.
i would really love it if you had some, if not, most of the same interests as me! ***please do not be a dry texter i CANNOT stand that***. in a qpr, idm calls, matching pfps/users/bios, referring to each other with pet names (that can be discussed more)! no i am not sleep calling please dont ask me. i ask we take our time getting to know each other before we call anything official!

***more -***

i am a buddhist but i honestly keep that to myself.. i don’t talk about it a bunch unless you ask me questions or if you’re trying to convert me 😭

if you have any questions or just want to chat, dm me or comment below and i’ll dm you :)