u/Ok_Floor9929

35F here for a M

I recently moved to Bangalore and I am interested in getting into something that has the potential for the long term. Not looking for flings and hook ups.

About me: I work in education. I’m financially independent.
I enjoy good conversations and like people who have the ability to talk about something intelligently. Not the reel based gyan.
I’m 5’3. I dress comfortable.
I’m loyal.
I take time getting to know people.
I love tea.
I’m not conventional and I hate toying the line.
Occasional smoker and drinker.

What am I looking for: Men who are independent thinkers. Do not cling to family or traditions.
Political position : no bjp supporters
Display the ability to think critically on issues

I should add that I’m located in the peripheral part of Bangalore so everyday meet ups or frequent meet ups will be a challenge.

If any of this makes sense to you, we can chat and see.

NOTE: I am not impersonating anyone. Losers and idiots stay away from this post.

I (29F) recently hooked up with a friend (30M). After having sex, I seem to be craving a relationship with him. He does not want a relationship and we had discussed this before we had sex. I was not attracted to him or even thought of them as someone I would date previous to this encounter. We were friends, not super close but comfortable with each other. Can have a good conversation, both mature, respect each other’s space. But something shifted within me after sex, I seem to be craving sex and intimacy.

I was under the impression that I could just have a fling but I guess I’m not cut out for that. Is sex really that different for men and women? Also women who have casual hookups, how do you just have sex without expecting more?

I’m just looking for some advice cause it messed with my head.