Japanese-Hawaiian-French Canadian-Portuguese Hapa with a seemingly different experience than most here
I stumbled on this sub after seeing the recent wasian meetup "controversy" posts on Reddit and found myself here. I was kind of surprised by the how different my experience as a hapa growing up in Hawaii seems to be from most of the posts here.
Growing up in the islands, I always felt like I could relate to anyone because I was a bit of everything and was somewhat ambiguous looking (besides asian cheek bones/eyes). In some ways, I even thought that maybe mixing races even more is the solution to the divisions we see amongst people these days, because most differences are arbitrary anyway. People are people no matter where you go.
I've since lived in the UK, Germany, and multiple states since moving away from home and still felt the same. I think Hawaii may be a bit special because it is a real mixture of cultures instead of multiple cultures living in the same place.
It seems like a lot of people here have the experience that they don't belong to any one culture and are kind of floating in no-mans land looking for their tribe (but I may be reading this wrong). To be honest, realizing that there may be a specific hapa tribe does feel somewhat "good" to me, knowing there are others that are similar to me in a more wholistic way.
I don't know what I'm trying to get at with this post...maybe some sort of consensus:
Does anyone else feel the same way I do? If so, why do you think you ended up viewing things that way.
Do you feel the opposite or any other type of way? Why do you think you ended up viewing things as such?