u/Ok_Organization2637 — reddlx

Hi Guys,

Please help me — I need your suggestions on this.

I am M35 and meet a girl F32 last week. She travelled to my city because her brother also works here.

Before meeting her, I already had her contact information, and we had connected once on a call that I initiated.

After meeting me, she told her brother that she is interested in this marriage proposal, but she almost never initiates messages or calls. She only initiated message once after two days and I called her and we talked for roughly 20 minutes.

On the other hand, her mother calls my mother and says that they are interested in proceeding further.

I’m super confused because she never initiates messages or calls and she is not opening up with me; she says that she is busy preparing for some government exams. I highly doubt this because nobody can be so busy all day that they cannot find 20–30 minutes to talk on a call given that she is not working currently.

What should I do?