u/Ok_Rain_7883

My 28 years old brother dated multiples girls now and they all have things in commun that i can't, and i tried, look past.

He doesn't care about the girl physics, but all his girlfriend has bad mental health...The eight of them in the last years.

And he talk to us about it like "yes she used to cut herself but now that she is with me she stop you know ?".

He has a new one again, that was abused by her biologic family to the point of being send into foster care. Then she was in a psych ward three times. I want to make it clear that i like this girl, she is very sweet and gentle and nice with us but my brother keep telling us everything (and i mean everything) she told him so he can go like "now that she is with me she isn't suicidal anymore". He even said something along the line that he will make her forget the abuse because of how good he is with her.

That already makes me unconfy but the worst is that when his ex girlfriend start slipping a bit or would have mental illness episode, he just bail. Like all his pas relationship ended when he really saw how bad it can get.

And i feel like all those girls deserves better and one day him leaving might make one of the girls hurt herself.

I talked to my mom about it, she said he was just unlucky to keep falling in love with troubled people. But i really think he chooses them to brag and feel like their heroes.

Should i talk to HIM directly about it ? Or even his girlfriend ? Or am i just imaginating it and he really is unlucky when it comes to falling in love ?

I live in a home for disabled adults where they are suppose to teach us how to be responsable and independant so we can live on our own.

There i met a girl named Abigail who have autism. She is really pretty, wears colors which i love. She loves stories and books. She knows a lot about folklore and myths and those kind of things too. She doesn't speak a lot but it doesn't really matters because i like it even when we just being in the same room.

The problem is that the staff said we aren't allowed to have relationship and romance because we are here to learn things. They said it's not our goal and it's not something they want to worry about.

So i don't know if i am allow to like her or not. I can't think of nothing else.

My sister was murder almost ten years ago when she was 22 years old. I've been with my husband for 15 years.

My husband and i have been having more and more foght over the last couple month. I used to think it was because we were tired and a bit overwhelmed lately but i am not too sure anymore.

Yesterday we had a big fight, start about nothing as it often does. It escaled, as it often does. At some point he start complaining about the mess in the spare room. "The mess" being some of my sister belongings that i kept. He said we could use the room for something more usefull that keeping it clustering with "shit".

I try to remind him that it was hers, that i need it to remember her. He then told me i was doing too much, that she has been dead for ten years and i still act as if she is part of our life. He even said i shouldn't have talk about her to our kids because they "didn't have to know about that". Was mad before i told them more about her than i told about their grandmother whom died last years which was HIS mother.

He kept going on about her as i kept asking him to just drop it. But he kept on and on. Until he ask what i was going to do the day my daughters are old enough to learn how she died. Which is something i don't want to bring ever.

I eventually left the house to go drive around as i realise he wasn't going to stop. I don't understand why he went there, he knew her, he loved her, he cried with me. He knew i was never going to get over it.

We haven't talk at all today. We're just being around each others. I don't know what to do about our relationship. The thing he said deeply hurts, more than when he fight me over my character or my mood. I'm not perfect either.

I said things that hurt him during fights too.

What can i do ? Move on as if he never said anythings ? Bring it on straight ? Leave ?

My 26-year-old sister has come home after leaving—or rather, fleeing—an abusive relationship with a 55-year-old man. They had been together for 10 years. I’ll let you do the math.

Since she got back, she hasn't been doing well at all. She either stays in bed all day—not eating, talking, or sleeping—or she becomes agitated, harms herself, and says things that don't make sense.

I don't know how to help her, since she’s an adult. Our parents... they aren't very understanding, either. They don't believe in mental health issues; they just tell me to leave her alone. That it will pass.

Yesterday, she was obsessed with her eyes. She kept saying they hurt and that something was wrong. I was terrified she might tear her eyes out...

So, I need some advice. What should be done? What can I do? She’s an adult; I can't force her to do anything.

It was a faberry fanfic on fanfiction.net where Quinn had autism. I think the name was "never can say goodbye" ? Not sure.

My younger sister and I stopped talking to our parents years ago. I left the house as soon as i could and became her legal guardian once my situation was stable enough to take her in.

We hold the no contacts for 12 years. Now she is 26 and i am 30. And i learnt recently that she's been getting daily phone calls from our mother, whose sick, for a while. And now she is also goes to her place to clean the house and do the shopping.

I am beyond furious honeslty. Our parents made our life a living hell. With humiliation, psychological torture (yes that the word i use), physical abuse that actually left scars on her body.

I conforted her on it of course. She said it's OK because our mother left father..."She is our mom and she is sorry".

She always side with our father, said it was discipline even when he almost drown my sister because she was late at school once.

My sister is a dreamer and i know she has been having an hard time, wanting a parent in her life but i can't stand it. She is doing every shit for mother while mother never done anything to protect us.

We had a big fight. Told me i was jealous because she was the one who got the call and not me.

I don't think i can keep having a relationship with her if she side with our mother. What can i do to make her understand why it's bad ?