u/Old_Lychee1917

Should I worry?

Long story short, the Viet woman I had been talking to for 4 months and I “broke” up. I had already planned to visit and had hotels and flight booked. We decided we were going to fly from HCMC to Hanoi. She told me she could book the tickets through her work and against my better judgment I sent $400 USD to her. She said she’d get a refund and send it to me but 10 days later she still hasn’t. So I made the mistake of reaching out today. I was nice about it and we chatted a bit. She said she’s been too busy at work and hadn’t had the time. She then suddenly went full crazy mode on me which was the problem in the first place and the conversation suddenly got very nasty. After she said something derogatory about my daughter I lost it and I said things I shouldn’t have. Basically calling her a “liar” and ended it calling her a “crazy psycho b!tch”. She told me that she’d tell the police and “speaking falsely about her reputation” will land me in jail. Should I be worried? She’s spiteful af and very cunning. I think she baited me and I fell for it.

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u/Old_Lychee1917 — 2 days ago
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First meeting intimacy?

Older male meeting nearly as old Vietnamese widow for the first time soon after almost 6 months of video calls. We've planned a 2 week vacation in several Vietnamese cities in luxurious hotels but she never asked about sleeping arrangements so of course I book all with one bed. I am crazy about her and we have great conversations with a lot of laughter but we have never discussed anything intimate. She is very conservative and I wonder what's going to happen? I have to admit I'd be very disappointed if there was no sex at all. It hasn't been about that but I find her absolutely beautiful.

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u/Old_Lychee1917 — 2 months ago