u/OneForeign3541

I'm 28 yo muslim female and there's a guy 30 yo at work who is a real womanizer,, he jumps from one girl to another and from what I've seen he treats women like they're just a way to pass time, and people even say he's into drugs! honestly i don't think he has any intention of being serious with any girl !!

The prblm iiis he's been chasing me for about 8 months from now! , every chance he gets he tells me "I love you " and the more I reject. Or ignore him the more obsessed he seems to.. wich is weird and scary!!!! It's like he can't accept that I'm rejecting him especially since other girls usually fall for him easily

Btw he even told me" ba9yatli fi galbi ki raki tba3di fiya" isn't it crazy!!

I always try to set clear boundaries, keep my distance as much as i can, remind him that we're just coworkers and that he should be careful with his words and actions..etc but non of it works ! Unfortunately im still forced to deal with him because of wory

He also has said many hurtful things to me probably to make me feel insecure ( he told me that im not pretty and complexée, that I should feel honored cause he wanted me, and he even laughed at my phone, my shoes..etc) then the next moment he would tell me I have beautiful eyes, that I'm beautiful and other fake compliments hoping I would fall for him....

The worst thing happened recently where i completely lost it, i was alone at work when he came over because of something work-related..suddenly he cornered me and when I tried to escape he grabbed me from behind and hugged me!! I panicked and started yelling and crying, he wasn't affected at all and kept saying "I just wanted to talk to you and you wouldn't stop for a minute, i wasn't going to do anything to you and you just over reacting!

The problem is that I work in a very small town if i report him or tell people he harassed me, I'm afraid they'll blame me instead + i don't have any evidence or have anyone to stand up for me

I already have deep trust issues with men ( cause i almost got raped once, thankfully God protected me, ive also experienced sexual harassment many times, and my parents' unhealthy relationship affected me deeply) all of this has made me very introverted and extremely cautious around men

My only goal was to work hard, support my family and live a quiet peaceful life away from people's criticism, i never expected that i'd end up dealing with someone who would harass me, bully me, and worst sexually harass me!! I never thought I'd have to face a situation like this in my life!!

Sorry for the long post I really needed to get this off my chest😔 and I hope someone here can give me some advice on how to handle this situation

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I've been dealing with constant harassment and manipulation from a coworker, no matter how hard I try to ignore him or keep him away from me nothing works and i don't know what else I can do!!