r/algeria

Hello everyone, l'm 31F single, l want to adopt kids, yes plural l want like 4 children 2 girls and 2 boys or just one boy and 3 girls, and that's because l think l'm getting older and waiting for a husband to give me kids is already taking forever, and of course l can't just get pregnant outside of marriage, but going through legal process will take me forever and l have to submit a lot of documents and be held on the waiting list forever and l might not get any (already done this but married couple tend to have priority over single people), it doesn't matter the age of the kids, but l prefer if they were less than 10 years old so they can get used to me and l don't mind if they were infants, can l find someone who is willing to give me their child for adoption? I have a steady job and good income, and a house and a car, and l can afford to take care of them.

PS: l don't mind if they were غير شرعيين, but l do care if they were healthy.

Edit: we will go through the legal process you guys, it's not like l'm taking them home with me without their legal papers...

Like c'mon how bad do you hate just being suspected for being from arab roots to hate them this much, it's not like it's gonna change anything about your reality or everyday life

I always read or hear ppl say '' Algeria isn't Afghanistan'' '' Algeria wasn't like this'' or whatever.

But until proven otherwise most algerians want a country like Afghanistan rather than something else.

I'm sorry to break it to many of you guys but Algeria isn't Didouche Mourad street.

The society is evolving to be more and more conservative, women have less and less space in public and may as well have no space in the future.

Many of the younger generation are openly very conservative salafi people, for whom islam is everything and the only way to live their life. No outside rule is relevant.

If you ever talk about any knowledge theory or anything outside of Quran you are occidentalized.

Even most of you feminist girls wear hijab and dont remember a single woman who got burned by acid to stop hijab being forced on them.

What algerians actually want is shariah, women in houses and all of that.

It all started when I met this 29-year-old guy online, here on reddit. At first, he seemed really sweet and nice to talk to. He told me he had serious intentions of marrying me, but deep down, I was feeling confused. I wasn't sure if I actually wanted to marry him, and honestly, I knew I was still way too young to be thinking about something like marriage. On top of that, I was worried about whether talking to him privately like this was even allowed (haram) in Islam, since we weren't married and our conversations didn't have a clear, immediate purpose.

Even though I felt unsure, I kept talking to him because I really liked how gently he spoke to me. It felt good to receive that kind of attention and sweetness, and it felt like it was filling a void—almost like healing my "daddy issues." Because of that emotional connection, I found it really hard to stop talking to him. Even when I tried to pull away, I found myself constantly checking my phone to see if he had messaged, or initiating the chat myself because I missed the way he made me feel.

To keep talking to him, I had told him I was 17, even though I'm actually younger (i’m 16) but looking back, that didn't change how wrong his actions were. Soon, things started taking a uncomfortable turn. He began bringing up inappropriate topics. He asked me if I would wear short dresses for him when we got married, and he kept talking about wanting to touch me.

I explicitly told him, "Can we stop talking about this? It makes me uncomfortable." I reminded him that I was still young, that he needed to respect my boundaries, and that a "no" means "no." I straight up told him that ignoring my boundaries and insisting on physical contact were massive red flags. But he didn't care. He literally told me that he didn't care about my boundaries and that he would still want to touch me even if I said no.
When I pushed back again and asked if he forgot how young I was, he tried to use religion against me. He brought up historical religious marriages to justify himself, claiming it was halal and that we had to follow it—even though earlier he had literally told me he was an ex-Muslim. He was using religion as a tool to manipulate me and pressure me into giving in.

Then he demanded to tell him how old was the prophet’s wife, he told me that we should follow islamic teachings even when i told him that was in the past. I realized he was manipulating me, disrespecting my boundaries, and taking advantage of my youth and vulnerability. So, right then and there, I blocked him for good.

الناس لتبيع اونلاين مقابل دراهم فليكسي كفاش ترجعو تدوهم دراهم؟؟😶

I’m really thinking of reporting algerian page somewhere just because I’m hurt. I wouldn’t normally say that, but their attitude is honestly unexplainable.The story goes: I contacted this personal shopper who buys things from Zara, H&M, etc. I reached out politely: “Hi, blabla can you get me these items, and how much would they be?”She replied about two of the items and asked about the third. I then asked her if she could get them from a certain website because it was cheaper. That was the turning point. She directly said, “I don’t buy khorda.” Mind you, this is a well-known site in the EU, and I was buying high-end makeup.

I took a step back and started politely explaining that the site was legit and that they had great offers. Last month, I even bought a bag there for 50% off. She then said, “Then buy it yourself. Why are you here?”(I had previously used another incredible page to buy from, but they’re sadly closed during the summer, so I came to hers.)I sent her a voice message apologizing if I had offended her, because maybe I had unintentionally sounded like a smart-ass. I basically just wanted to smooth things over because I still wanted to buy those items.

She then said, “You should be sorry.”I apologized again and said, “Salam alaykom,” which she replied to using the same wording.

I’m actually proud of myself because I acted in a way I’ve always admired in others. I protected my energy instead of mimicking hers. But honestly, it still left a really bad taste in my mouth.

جيت اليوم نحكي لكم حكايتي مع Decathlon و شركة التوصيل غير معروفة، و أنا اصلا ما نعرفهاش كون مشي ديكاتلون يتعاملوا معاها.

يوم 11 جويلية 2026 دخلت للسيت تاع ديكاتلون، و كمونديت 3 صوالح بمجموع 83.000 دج و خلصتهم بالبطاقة الذهبية ثم ثم، المهم لحقتني العفسة الأولى 13 جويلية، و لحقتني العفسة الثانية يوم 14 جويلية هذو زوج جاوني من المحل تاع آلجي، العفسة الثالثة من المفروض تلحقني 16 جويلية جاية من المحل تاع قسنطينة، جا داك النهار و انا قاعد نستنى و نتعقب في الكولي في السيت تاع شركة التوصيل و دايرين باللي استلمو الكولي بصح ما دايرينيش باللي مدوه للليفرور، و بداو يفوتو ليامات و ماكان والو، بديت نتقلق أنا و نبعث في الايميلات و نكوطاكتي في ديكاتلون و فيهم و كل مرة يجيبولي حكاية، و م بعد بعثت Mise en demeure لديكاتلون، جوابهم على الايمايلات تاوعي ماولاش يقنعني، غير رانا en contact avec la socièté de livraison afin de résourdre cette situation و خدمة الزبائن تاع شركة التوصيل مين كثرت عليهم في الواتساب المرة الاولى كذبوا عليا قالوا الكولي تاعك راح غلطة لتيزي وزو (عنوان التوصيل تاعي في الغرب) و م بعد ماولاوش يردوا و راحوا بلعاني داروا في السيت باللي رجعوا الكولي لديكاتلون يوم 4 أوت، خاطرش ما عندهم كيفاش يكذبوا و يقولوا استلمته منهم، مين شفت كيما هكذا تكلمت مع المحل تاع ديكاتلون تاع قسنطينة بالتلفون و قالوا لي الكولي ما رجعوهش لنا وهوما تاني فاقوا باللعبة تاع شركة التوصيل، قالي هو قاعد عنهم in transit من 13 جويلية و مين كثرنا عليهم الحس داروا رواحهم بلعاني باللي رجعوه 4 أوت، و على حساب ما فهمت من هدرته باللي الحكاية هي أن الليفرور سرقه ولا ضيعوه، ايا قالي غادي نرونمبورسوا لك دراهمك، و م بعد حنا نشوفوا وش نديروا مع شركة التوصيل.

والله نتمنى يفسخوا معاهم العقد على خيانتهم الامانة و زيد التزوير من الفوق.

Khouty Yesterday Kont bara I saw a disgusting sight: a mother and her daughter were being chased by mgta3 Can you imagine, along with her mother, how long will we continue to see these sights? Our mothers and sisters cannot go out without being exposed to situations like these?

I have an interest in religions despite not being religious and currently christianity appeals to me. finding a bible (or any other holy book in fact) here is almost impossible...so if you know a source or way to find an old testament or a gospel of matthew, please let me know

​i need to vent because today was absolute hell and i feel like im gonna lose my mind

​so my aunt 46f is one of the most closed minded toxic people ive ever met in my life she is obsessed with the past blindly devoted to traditional arab culture hates anything western and is just so rigid and arrogant the funny thing is she holds a phd in psychology but she is the most unhinged person when it comes to communication no logic no empathy zero respect for personal boundaries she just uses intimidation shame and power trips on everyone

​today they were showing some documentary or clip about ancient arab history on tv im 18 and i grew up in the digital age reading mystery novels anime spacetoon learning languages getting into tech and just being curious about the whole world i love learning about everything without hating on other cultures or blindly idolizing one thing

​she started questioning me about what i knew about that era i gave her my honest take and she immediately started mocking me she started screaming that im detached from my identity that i have zero culture and that im just trying to copy the west just because i dont have this extreme obsession with ancient poetry and history like she does

​i tried to explain my point of view calmly but you cannot reason with her she worships ancient history and treats it like an absolute cult when she realized i wasnt backing down or agreeing with her she snapped

​she grabbed my hand super hard squeezing it to force me to look at her phone screen forcing me to watch some random video showing ancient arab poetry i kept telling her to stop but she was pressing her phone into my face and squeezing my hand saying look at this watch it

​i felt so violated and suffocated like who does that actually using physical force to make someone watch a video because they dont agree with your views its pathetic she thinks having a degree makes her superior but she acts completely uneducated and abusive

​im just so exhausted dealing with people who mistake toxicity and forced control for preserving culture im keeping my distance from her from now on because im completely done trying to be polite

Je suis Algérienne résidant à l’étranger et je me pose sincèrement cette question : pourquoi certains Algériens tiennent-ils absolument à s’exprimer en français alors qu’ils ne le maîtrisent manifestement pas ?

Je vois régulièrement des messages remplis de fautes d’orthographe, de grammaire et de vocabulaire, au point que tout le monde voit bien que la personne ne maîtrise pas réellement le français.
Alors pourquoi ne pas simplement utiliser l’arabe ou la darija, qui sont beaucoup plus naturels ? Est-ce une question d’habitude, de milieu social, ou parce que le français est encore perçu comme une langue plus prestigieuse ?

Je ne critique pas le fait de parler français. Maîtriser plusieurs langues est une richesse. Ce qui m’interpelle, c’est cette volonté de l’utiliser à tout prix alors que les lacunes sont évidentes et visibles par tout le monde.

Qu’en pensez-vous ?