u/One_Idea_2522

Any fishing ponds to bass fish me and my daughter (3) I’d even pay to bass fish there, we don’t keep fish catch and releases only. Or any good stocked ponds

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my mother refuses to learn when it comes to my daughter, my daughter is almost 3 and she still cannot put her in the car seat correctly. I constantly have to double check and it's always so lose I can put my fist between the straps. and when I tell her this, she tell me that I do it too tight that it chokes her or leaves marks on her yada yada and refuses to take my advice.

another example my daughter had a bee string. my mother suggested she spit on it and put tobacco on it. I tried explaining to her that is a myth and not actually true and I tried to show her facts from the Internet that included information from doctors on the mayo clinic website. she proceeds to tell me "I don't listen to that, I trust my gut" 🫩.

when I was trying to ween my daughter off her pacifier. I thought she hadn't used one for two days come to find out my mother had hidden one in her room and was secretly giving her one, and I even asked her if she was giving her a pacifier and she lied directly to my face about it and told me no.

another time she said my daughter was sick. I said how do you know did she have a fever. she said idk I gave her medicine without my permission mind you. I tell her " okay let's not give her anymore I need to see if she's running a fever she might not even be sick" 4 hours later she gives her medicine again so again I cannot take her temp. the next morning I checked she had no fever and wasnt sick. she gave her Tylenol and Motrin that was not needed

I could go on and on about these thing. but my point is that I have tried to explain things to her and she constantly undermines me and goes behind my back and lies to me about it. then uses my daughter against me saying " she loves me it doesn't matter what you do she's gonna love me" I tell her love has nothing to do with anything it's about the well being of my child I am her father and you need to respect what I say when it comes to my child.

when I pick her up sometimes she will cry because I'm not letting her do whayever she wants, an example would me trying to bring her to the bath. or not letting her have another Popsicle. she will sit there with my daughter and say " why are you making her cry, stop making her cry" making me the villain to my child. I just am sick of this.

any advice AITAH