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AITA A guy was trying to hangout with my fiancé so I told him off

My fiancé told me recently that I guy had been instagram messaging her to hangout one on one. I asked her to block him, she didn’t because “He’s her friend.” She told him she was married and he kept pushing. So I messaged him hey man, I’m only gonna say this nicely one time please leave my fiancé alone if you’re a man you’ll just move on. My fiancé is now furious at me and told me she was upset then ignored me from 3 pm until this morning when she texted me: Honestly this is ridiculous and very controlling. I will not be told what I can and cannot do I am going to do whatever I want. You took it way too far. He is my friend and it’s not like I hung out with him one on one. I told him I wouldn’t be comfortable hanging out one on one. He was fine with that. And no I didn’t block him because he’s pretty much my only friend. He literally was not pushing to do anything. I’m the one who told him I still want to be friends and hang out in a group. I told him it would be fine if we hang out at the parade cuz my mom will be with us. Idk why that’s bad honestly. You need to have a little trust here because I’m literally in the military and I’m going to be working with other men all of the time so you’re gonna have to get used to me having guy friends. Do not do this again. On another note I think we should wait a while before getting married.

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u/One_Reputation_9759 — 3 days ago