u/One_Wave_4967

I (38)F met a guy (39)M on a dating app. We hit it off really well. We spent about 2 to 3 hours with endless banters, although he was clear that with me, he wanted something short, and I was okay with it. He would keep calling me endlessly, not just calls but video calls. The proximity was a very big advantage. He lived within the radius of 1.5 km. In fact, I was shifting in the building next to his in one years time. So after the first date he wanted to meet the next day as well, and we kept meeting for an entire week day after day. But, on each call he would talk kinky and there was a physical chemistry. I was wanting things to escalate physically, but that never happened. He would rile me up and never escalated beyond a kiss. The kiss also happened when he confessed that he was divorced twice and that didn’t matter to me as i was having a good time. He confessed he wanted me to know that detail before things escalated. He would make these future plans about vacations etc. He made me meet his entire extended family as well (he didn’t tell me he was doing that) . But, i would even see him getting calls from multiple women when we’d meet plus he mentioned he was in touch with his exes. I didn’t bother as we were both clear. He started taunting me on being on other call when he called, even subtle jealousy was noted.Since he was not escalating things physically and kept wanting validation from me, i got pissed off and stopped entertaining him. He and his brother invited me for his brother’s wedding but he never followed up with an actual invite and didn’t hear back from him. So i didn’t try as well, the moment he realised his contact was deleted, he tried getting back in touch with calls and messages. I want to understand what does he want? I was okay to keep things physical, gave him multiple signals, he was super attracted to me as well.
He was getting what he wanted (as per our first date what he described). What the hell does he actually want ? Should I actually even answer his call now?
Really need help.

I (38)F met a guy (39)M on a dating app. We hit it off really well. We spent about 2 to 3 hours with endless banters, although he was clear that with me, he wanted something short, and I was okay with it. He would keep calling me endlessly, not just calls but video calls. The proximity was a very big advantage. He lived within the radius of 1.5 km. In fact, I was shifting in the building next to his in one years time. So after the first date he wanted to meet the next day as well, and we kept meeting for an entire week day after day. But, on each call he would talk kinky and there was a physical chemistry. I was wanting things to escalate physically, but that never happened. He would rile me up and never escalated beyond a kiss. The kiss also happened when he confessed that he was divorced twice and that didn’t matter to me as i was having a good time. He confessed he wanted me to know that detail before things escalated. He would make these future plans about vacations etc. He made me meet his entire extended family as well (he didn’t tell me he was doing that) . But, i would even see him getting calls from multiple women when we’d meet plus he mentioned he was in touch with his exes. I didn’t bother as we were both clear. He started taunting me on being on other call when he called, even subtle jealousy was noted.Since he was not escalating things physically and kept wanting validation from me, i got pissed off and stopped entertaining him. He and his brother invited me for his brother’s wedding but he never followed up with an actual invite and didn’t hear back from him. So i didn’t try as well, the moment he realised his contact was deleted, he tried getting back in touch with calls and messages. I want to understand what does he want? I was okay to keep things physical, gave him multiple signals, he was super attracted to me as well.
He was getting what he wanted (as per our first date what he described). What the hell does he actually want ? Should I actually even answer his call now?
Really need help.

I (38)F met a guy (39)M on a dating app. I had mentioned on my profile clearly that I was looking for something long-term. On the other hand. His profile mentioned long-term as well, but was open for short-term on the first date. We hit it off really well. We spent about 2 to 3 hours with endless banters, although he was clear that with me, he wanted something short, and I was okay with it. He would keep calling me endlessly, not just calls but video calls. The proximity was a very big advantage. He lived within the radius of 1.5 km. In fact, I was shifting in the building next to his in one years time. So after the first date he wanted to meet the next day as well, and we kept meeting for an entire week day after day. But, on each call he would talk kinky and tried to know less of or about me. I was wanting things to escalate physically, but that never happened. He would rile me up and never escalated beyond a kiss. The kiss also happened when he confessed that he was divorced twice and that didn’t matter to me as i was having a good time. He confessed he wanted me to know that detail before things escalated. He would make these future plans about vacations etc. He made me meet his entire extended family as well (he didn’t tell me he was doing that) . But, i would even see him getting calls from multiple women when we’d meet plus he mentioned he was in touch with his exes. Since he was not escalating things physically and kept wanting validation from me, i got pissed off and stopped entertaining him. He and his brother invited me for his brother’s wedding but he never followed up with an actual invite and didn’t hear back from him. So i didn’t try as well, the moment he realised his contact was deleted, he tried getting back in touch with calls and messages. I want to understand what does he want? I was okay to keep things physical, gave him multiple signals, he was super attracted to me as well.
He was getting what he wanted (as per our first date what he described). What the hell does he actually want ? Should I actually even answer his call now?
Really need help.