u/Only_Celebration1389

I know everyone has insecurities but sometimes it feels like all of there insecurities is just traits that I have. They think there to fat of have to broad of shoulders and what not. But I think those are all traits that I have and sometimes im okay with these traits right up until someone mentions it as one of their insecurities. I cant tell them to stop because these are their insecurities but it just makes me feel like shit knowing that looking like me is someone worst nightmare. Has this happened to anyone else?

Hi, I usually really like banter with my freinds but recently its been getting to me a little and I know that if u tell them that it was hurting my feelings lately they would stop thats not an issue. My issue is that I wouldn't know how to stop but it wouldnt be fair for me to ask them to spot if I continue tward them. However I dont know how to interact with people in any other manner. So my question is how do Interact with my friends without bantering with them?