AIO - husband bragged about being drunk while caring for our baby
Every year my husband and I go to a local music festival. We are both in our 30s. He has been going to this festival with his friends and family since he was a kid. It’s his big favourite event of the year and he usually gets pretty drunk at it.
We now have a 5 mo old baby, so he did not drink much this year ( 2 or 3 beers).
I went home with the baby for bedtime while he stayed out which is what we agreed on and I have no issue with. But then I noticed a story he posted on Instagram earlier in the day:
a picture of him holding our baby with the caption “different vibe festival this year (equally as drunk)”
We then had an argument over messages (see attached screenshots). Me and my family don’t drink so he thinks I’m blowing the issue out of proportion because of my upbringing. Now on top of being annoyed about the original post I’m also annoyed because he was dismissive and won’t take the post down.
What do you think, am I overreacting by asking him to take down the post?
Edit: Sorry I didn’t get a chance to respond to your comments directly (between the baby and weekend activities it’s hard to find a moment alone). Before I had a chance to say anything this morning my husband deleted his post and apologized about how he spoke to me. Thank you to everyone who provided input, it helped me be more articulate when talking about how it all made me feel.
We also had a good conversation about how things have changed since the baby and what needs to change so that we can work together as a team who show love and respect for eachother.
We will try couples therapy as well.