Newly Awaked Sexuality
Hi all,
I'm (37M, married to F) a little new to this so apologies in advance if I say something stupid. I've been straight (or so I thought) for most of my life. Turns out, after a few years of therapy and starting to workout and invest in myself, I am pansexual. I recently talked to my wife about it for the first time and everything went pretty well. She said she's thought that for years at this point. So that all went well and I am really relieved about that.
Now I'm not really sure what to do or who to tell. In some ways I feel like I don't really need to tell anyone (obviously aside from this message). Not because I'm ashamed - though I am still struggling through a significant amount of shame - but more because I don't think it changes my relationships with people at this point. I'm not in an open relationship and I'm committed to my wife.
Obviously there isn't a playbook or right way to do this, but I'm wondering if anyone has had a similar experience. What did it look like for you?