horrible dudes having gfs
i dont understand how some genuinely horrible dudes have gfs/women interested in them, u could find the single most emotionally constipated guy with 0 emotional depth and somehow he has a gf who complains about him all the time, same with cheaters in general, and a lot of the times they arent even good looking ( to justify why girls are attracted to them) it baffles me, and on the other hand, i see guys who are genuinely sweet getting treated like dogshit, obviously im not generalizing i repear I AM NOT GENERALIZING , but i see this way too often
is this subreddit for dating or are we just trolling atp lmfao
i mean i am not interested in dating anyone currently but man i love scrolling here sometimes i find the weirdest people here, i js saw one straight up asking for a sugar daddy in rabat lol
being unworthy of love
i find it sad how some people think they are not worthy of love just because they have some issues they need to deal with, i get wanting to work on urself alone, thats a different thing, but a lot of people genuinely think theyre unlovable cuz they carry childhood trauma or some sort of mental issue, unless ur genuinely a horrible person i think everyone is deserving of love and support , a lot of issues can be fixed by just being kinder to each other and giving love and support
i am starting to really despise/hate men
as the title shows, i myself am a man, and honestly lately ive developped a very intense hatred for men , specifically the upcoming generation, millenials gen-z and brahech li tal3in, they lack respect, manners, have no shame, are rude and honestly just all around awful people, obviously its not everyone but still, my sister cannot even go out without being followed and harassed even my fucking mom who is a lady in her 50s gets harassed everyday, the other day the second i left her side for 6 seconds to go to a grocery shop i turned around and saw a dude harassing her, ended up spending nearly 6 hours detained by the police until they cleared me off,thankfully nothing got on my record but still. the recently my dad got ganged up on by 2 guys on a bike after he complained to them about almost breaking his car's side mirrors and if it werent for 2 older men siding with dad he would have probably got beaten up or worse, this is such a big issue i hear so many guys and girls complain about this so i know i am not alone, its genuinely infuriating i cannot imagine what women feel like
Morality doesnt come from religion
morality never came from religion and it never will, the greatest example of this is our society and how it is wired, religion can give you something to believe in and a set of rules to follow sure, but that is different from morality, proof being atheists and religious people often times make similar moral judgments when it comes to dilemmas and ethical scenarios.
i am in no shape or form an atheist, but i also know i dont need a set of rules written in some holy book to be a good decent human being , and if you dont do said things just because "it is forbidden in the quran/bible/torah" then you are fundamentally no different than animals
how hard is it to be loved unconditionally by someone
I (22m) was sitting the other day after i had a very heated argument with my parents and i realized ive never been unconditionally loved, by anyone, not even my own parents, what i mean by unconditional love is loving and being loved by someone regardless of their flaws and issues, being there for each other in the good and bad and just genuinely caring deeply for each other .Ever since that day ive been in this constant state of sadness and bitterness, i think a part of me is being stupid and not realistic but ive kinda always wanted someone in my life who i could be that way with, doesnt matter if its romantic or not it could be a friend or gf or anything, just someone who i can vent to and id listen to and return the favor, someone who ud feel genuinely cares, not the fake caring, someone who u feel is genuinely happy to talk to u and isnt simply doing so to kill time or because they dont have anything better to do, someone u can reciprocate small thoughtful gestures with, that kind of stuff, i think i am being a bit unreasonable i mean life goes on i suppose but still, i cant help but think about this and lately it has been smtng that hasnt left my mind.
Unconditional love
I (22m) was sitting the other day after i had a very heated argument with my parents and i realized ive never been unconditionally loved, by anyone, not even my own parents, what i mean by unconditional love is loving and being loved by someone regardless of their flaws and issues, being there for each other in the good and bad and just genuinely caring deeply for each other .Ever since that day ive been in this constant state of sadness and bitterness, i think a part of me is being stupid and not realistic but ive kinda always wanted someone in my life who i could be that way with, doesnt matter if its romantic or not it could be a friend or gf or anything, just someone who i can vent to and id listen to and return the favor, someone who ud feel genuinely cares, not the fake caring, someone who u feel is genuinely happy to talk to u and isnt simply doing so to kill time or because they dont have anything better to do, someone u can reciprocate small thoughtful gestures with, that kind of stuff, i think i am being a bit unreasonable i mean life goes on i suppose but still, i cant help but think about this and lately it has been smtng that hasnt left my mind.
(22m) anyone wants to chat?
just looking for someone to talk to and whatnot during the day from time to time