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Hoi, is er iemand dit me dit kan helpen ontcijferen?

Mijn NS Dal abonnement ging in op 30 juni. Dan zou ik tot en met 29 augustus recht moeten hebben op de prijs van €49,- per maand (zo heb ik het begrepen).

Voorheen had ik NS Flex maar dit is dus omgezet naar de NS Dal Vrij. Ik wil het daarna weer terugzetten naar NS Flex.

Op mijn eerste factuur (vorige maand) stonden deze getallen: Onbeperkt reizen buiten de spits: 88,45 Onbeperkt reizen in het weekend: 39,50 Berekende actiekorting: 78,95. De eindprijs was dan dus 49 euro.

Op de tweede factuur stond: Onbeperkt reizen buiten de spits: 88,45 Onbeperkt reizen in het weekend: 39,50 Berekende actiekorting: 40,75 De eindprijs was dan dus 87,20 euro.

Ik ging er vanuit dat de prijs per maand 49 euro zou zijn, maar nu is het dus 38,20 meer.

Op de site van NS staat een soort uitleg dat het bedrag op de factuur niet klopt of naar rato verrekend wordt als je factuurdatum anders is ofzo? Mijn facturering is rond de helft van de maand. Is het dan zo dat ik maar tot 15 augustus ofzoiets kan gebruik maken van de korting en de andere helft voor het normale bedrag wordt verrekend? Ik meende dat je de hele maand augustus het kan gebruiken, en mijne loopt dus nog tot 29 augustus als ik de 2 maanden reken.

Maar er staat dus wel bij dat het bedrag van 87,20 gewoon wordt geïncasseerd.

Kan dat kloppen? Ik snap er niks meer van..

Even though usually I don't get any response on posts here, I'll just write something down and hope to get at least one :) If not, maybe at least reading it could be helpful for someone. I hope :)

Since I'm 15 I've known I like women romantically. I had my first crush on a girl then. But I had only ever dated men. 1. Because any feelings that I had for women (usually friends), were not mutual. These were always straight women, unfortunately. 2. Because straight men are easier to find. Even in gay bars in my town were usually only gay men and straight women. On apps I could easily match men, but hardly any women, I didn't get matches with women or the conversation would die quickly.

Recently I dated a woman which had mutual feelings, for the first time in my life. I knew her trough a shared club. It lasted about 1,5 months, but since she had an avoidant attachment, it didn't last (I decided to end it because it was hurting my feelings too much).

Yesterday I went on a date with a different woman (trough an app this time, I seem to be more lucky on apps now).

I want to share my experience here.

I had always thought, as a bisexual woman, that I should feel the same dating a woman as I feel while dating a man. I somehow always doubted myself whether I'm really bisexual, because I never seriously dated a woman and my friends are mostly women. I thought, maybe I can only see them as friends. Around men, I always feel a certain type of tension, no matter if I find them attractive or not.

But after dating these two women, I understand that dating women is different, and that's okay. I do feel a more safe and friend-like way around women that I date. It's because I've spent most of my life around women and been the closest with women. It's more familiar. And because as women we understand each other in certain topics, we can feel a sense of safety and ease around each other. But this doesn't have to cancel out romantic feelings. Because I now know that I don't have to feel the tension that I do around men, with women as well to feel attracted to them. The starting point is just different, more safe.

I'm just gaining this insight recently. I thought those two things couldn't exist together. If I felt too safe and comfortable around someone, then I probably couldn't feel attracted to them. But it can both exist together.

I am exited to date more women. I'm not excluding men from my dating life or romantic prospects, but I realize that I just need more time to feel safe around men than I do with women and the understanding that you have between two women will never be exactly the same as you can get between a man and a women (simply because we have different bodies, different experiences in society).

Thanks for reading and if you do have a similar experience let me know. :)