u/Organic_Scholar_8343

I'm 23F and I've only ever had one sexual partner before this my ex-boyfriend. We broke up about 7 months ago and I've recently started trying to date again. I'm quite inexperienced and I've been very anxious about sex.

I met a guy through a dating app. We talked for a while and he asked me out for drinks. We went to a bar, chatted and had a few drinks. He then asked if I wanted to go back to his for a few more drinks and I agreed.

At his place I had another drink and everything felt fine. He made a move to kiss me and I kissed him back. We started making out and he was touching me, and eventually we went to his bedroom. We both undressed and continued making out in his bed.

He then wanted to escalate things to sex. I told him I didn't think it was a good idea.

He kept saying that it was fine. I felt pressured and kind of just lay there. He then had sex with me.

I'm really confused about what happened. I had consented to kissing, making out, going to his place, and getting undressed but I had told him I didn't think sex was a good idea.

I’m 23F and I’ve only ever had one sexual partner, my ex-boyfriend who I broke up with about 7 months ago. I’m starting to feel like I want to put myself out there and see what’s out there but I’m honestly so anxious and nervous when it comes to anything sexual.

I’ve met a couple of guys since my breakup and I’ve liked them but when things start getting more intimate I completely freeze up. I can’t seem to bring myself to get naked or actually start doing anything even when I’m attracted to the guy.

I think part of it is that I’ve only ever been with one person and I’m just so inexperienced and in my head about everything. I worry about being awkward not knowing what I’m doing being judged etc.