u/Original-Dot7358

Problem/goal: Hi! I want to do something I’ve never done before on my birthday. Not sure if this is the right sub though…

Pero gusto ko lang po magtanong kung may recommendations po kayo ng solo activities I can do for my birthday? Around Metro Manila lang po sana kasi it's my birthday in a few days at sakto naman na day off ko kaya naisip ko why not gumala? Haha. Tsaka na-inspire din ako ng mga nagpo-post sa SoloActivitiesPH na sub.

I'm pretty introverted myself kaya 10/10 mae-enjoy ko yung alone time na ito. Salamat po! 🙂

Previous attempts: None

Number 23 kasi ito sa list ko ng Things-To-Do-Before-I-Die. Haha. You see, at 33, I’ve never had a girlfriend kasi super shy at introverted ako. I posted din a while back about wanting (pero more like WISHING talaga ito 🥹) to date a pretty femme as an uglie soft masc, pero di ako sinwerte so baka second time’s the charm? Haha. SANA 🙏✨ Give me a chance, please? 🥲

Anyway, here’s some info about me:
- 33F
- From Metro Manila
- Working professional
- Soft masc, dito ko lang nalaman itong qualifier na ito in the wlw community and apparently it’s the one that describes me the most
- Into music and concerts (plays keys, ukulele and a little bit of guitar)
- Into art (I recently learned watercolor painting and found I’m kinda good at it, so I bought my own art stuff)
- I take clouds/sky/moon/sunset pictures (kahit mej blurry kasi takot mahablutan ng phone sa sakayan haha) whenever I could
- ‘Di masyado cute to be honest (maputi pero hindi clear skin—fuck hormonal acne huhu, wonky front teeth pero ‘di naman bad breath, maliit lang 5’1 pero chubby at 68kgs) but I swear mabango naman at maayos naman ako manamit
- Medyo aircon humor kasi lumaking sheltered (sorry na, I’m the youngest in my family), pero ‘di kami mayaman

About ü:
- Hindi DDS/Apolo10 (Number 1 ito kasi kahit pretty femme ka objectively pero DDS o Apolo10 ka, I believe na hindi yun nakaka-pretty)
- FEMME
- PRETTY
- Around my age sana or older
- Kahit one time lang tayo mag-date tapos you can ignore/ghost me later/for the rest of your life kapag na-realize mong “ay, ang pangit niya pala talaga”, gets ko naman na yun kahit medyo masakit haha 🙃

Ayun, just posting here again kasi baka mayroon na talagang maawa sa akin. Haha. Salamat po!

So just today, may binili lang akong art supplies sa mall (I’ve attended an art workshop the past few days at sobrang na-inspire ako to buy my own stuff para puwede ko siya gawin sa bahay, like a real art kid haha) tapos may nakita akong wlw couple na out on a date, si ate 1 ay femme and super pretty tapos si ate 2 parang ako, very plain Jane. So naturally nainggit ako at nag-wonder kung kailan naman kaya ang turn ko to date a pretty femme? Kahit one time lang, pa-experience niyo lang sa akin? Haha. 🥲 And then, kung ‘di niyo ako bet, you can disappear naman whenever. No hard feelings naman kasi what if ayaw niyo talaga sa panget? HAHAHA.

Ayun, just wanna try posting here, baka mayroong maawa sa akin. Haha. Salamat po! 🙃