u/Original_Section_283

Im 32M met this girl in the gym 27F we hit it off well but sometimes I wondered if she was attracted to me or not she would give friendly hugs and wouldn’t want to get intimate even 2 months in. I ask her if she was attracted to me she says yes and that she’s usually not touchy in general. we got to the point where I’d be in her crib but still
No kissing or anything. The moment she went back to her hometown for the weekend everything shifted I text saying I went out to an event she didn’t text back for days so I text asking if everything is okay and that if she’s no longer interested just tell me.she texts back saying sorry for the mixed signals but she’s still trying to figure out where she is at with me. I text again a few days later asking how her day was etc then I follow up asking when she was free to grab something to eat she then ghosts me with no reply. It’s frustrating because I gave her the option to be honest multiple times be she always gave me reassurance that she just needs time to figure things out but her actions are very telling. I’ve been in my head if she rekindled with a ex or just overwhelmed with work as a teacher since the semester just started. I can understand be ghosted 1-3 dates in but this is 3 months and it sucks so far it’s been a week since I last talked with her.