Are marriage agencies taboo?
I am a woman who lived and worked in Germany. I am not Asian. Recently, I started to think about marriage.
I have been involved with Japan very much as I practice traditional arts for over a decade and I have stayed in Japan many times. In Europe it is quite difficult to get married becuase marriage is seen as something unnecessary, even obsolete. I am a bit more traditional so I’d like to have traditional life as well, so I started researching into marriage agencies
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My question is: are marriage agencies legit way to meet trustworthy people? My concern is my safety as a woman. Dating apps didn’t work for me because most people hide their intentions and are not serious. I have found several marriage agencies that charge significant membership prices so I wanted to ask Japanese people, are such places legit and can you really meet trustworthy partners there? I am completely fine if agency asks proof of my single status and legal status.
I would like to meet Japanese person who is interested to live abroad (Germany), at least for some time.
Also, I’d like to continue working after getting married, is my wish something unusual for Japanese people? I like Japanese culture and I am especially attracted to the idea of being traditional mother, but I’d also like to remain working. I speak several European languages and I’m learning Japanese. Is learning traditional art in Japan seen as strange?