How do I get my ex/husband to cooperate?
My husband had severe addictions to corn & ☘️ through our 5.5 year marriage. We envisioned moving to Saudi for the past four years to see if the change in environment would help. He cheated on me last year and couldn’t face me so completely stopped talking to me. We almost had no relationship and only communicated if we needed something. He finds it very hard to be emotionally available and communicate. He finally got a job recently and we agreed to go through a two month separation period to see how we feel without one another and whether there was room for companionship and reconciliation. We had just spoken about getting back together whilst he was in Saudi, then had a huge argument over one of his female ex colleagues whom he accused me of prank calling. I got angry as he didn’t even ask and automatically assumed it was me and I ended up bringing up the past in the argument, such as the fact that he always puts others before me and that he should go to the other woman instead. He ended the marriage over it and I have been sending him numerous messages since, but he won’t communicate with me. I have gone one day without messaging him but it feels like forever. He hasn’t opened my message from Friday and I worry he will forget me if I don’t message him. I just don’t know what to do, especially as he is in another country now 😢
Prior to this happening, he gave me talaq in a huge argument back in Feb, but the Sharia Council said it was invalid for various reasons, but he still thinks it was valid. He accepted me during my iddah period but then a week later, ended the marriage so I’m in my iddah period again until August. I really want him to think his decision through but don’t know how to get through to him 😓💔