u/Overall-Summer-8120

I am in a relationship with someone who is addicted to porn. It hurts so much. It hurts when they turn me down for sex and I know it's because of the porn use. It hurts when they can't perform. Hurts that he watches straight to gay porn but denies being bi or gay despite other evidence. I can't tell if he has physically cheated. All of this hurts because I know he isn't ready to quit. So, what can I do? We have an amazing relationship otherwise. It's destroying us.

My (25f) boyfriend (26m) has a very prominent porn addiction. He has admitted it to me but he has done nothing to stop it or change it. He is always lying to me. He lied about what he is into sexually and I feel like I will never be enough to please him. We have sex 5 to 6 times a week. And I still find hundreds of subreddits he has cruised looking at porn. Gay to straight porn, young women, older women, big women..I feel so defeated bc I am always trying fun and new things to please him and it doesn't seem to matter. What is worse is anytime I do confront or ask about his porn usage he just lies. He makes up stories about it. We have been together for 2 years. It's going to destroy our relationship.