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We’re both 20. Been together for 4 years. Recently moved out in April. We’ve had our ups and our downs but I’ve never expected her to do anything like this. I was feverish in bed one night and I got the biggest sense of dread so I took her phone to the bathroom and saw all of this. I know it’s a huge invasion of privacy and I’m totally in the wrong for that but I can’t get any of this out of my head. I feel so used and manipulated. These are texts between two of her friends and the other guy she (might) be seeing. She also appears to be trying to impregnate herself against my will which is a whole different thing I don’t want to think about right now.
The crossed out names not labeled “me” are referring to the other guy.
u/Overall_Look4538 — 18 days ago