AITA for outing the guy i was talking too. to his gran because he messed me about
I (23,m) who is openly gay. was speaking to this guy also (23,m) who was still in the closet. we met on facebook as we had mutual friends. it first started of as just sending memes at a way of communicating. this then lead to conversations for hours and though the night on snapchat. he had eventually came out as gay to me but he wasn’t ready to tell anyone yet. over 3 years we spoke. i had patience. we would arrange to meet for dates only for him to cancel at the last minute and sometimes ghost me. but it kept trying. it wasn’t till the 3 year mark i had been randomly ignored for 3 weeks and i message him. to then get a reply saying “sorry im in a relationship and have been for three months ” i saw red. i saw every shade of red. 3 years wasted on a POS. so i though what the best way to fuck him over like he did with me. and this was 3 years of it. so i went a drive with my friend. i cried then payed some beyoncé and found my inner beyoncé knowles famous words “jealous or crazy” so i went onto his family info on facebook and messaged who i though was his mum saying we had been talking for 3 years. he was gay. and he was currently not at a work trip but infact at a hotel with his boyfriend. then blocked her . he got kicked out and disowned by his family and never to be heard of again . so am i the a**hole?