u/Pale_Water_1976

For context I was friends with Abby before I met James. We grew apart because she gets very jealous when mutual friends like me

We have been dating for two years and she has always been a little jealous . She started constantly makes comments about do you know how lucky you are to find a guy like that? I brushed it off. Lately it’s been I need a guy like James I brushed it off. Today she’s talking about men and just catching us up on her life she starts talking about how she like guys with the exact facial hair my boyfriend has she doesn’t stop there brings up how she likes blue collar men, the car he drives, jacked guys. She pulls me to the side and looks at me then at James and goes I really like guys with a big nose. My heart drops then she makes a comment about riding the face of a man with a big nose and I walk away. His sisters are no contact with Abby because they constantly catch her looking James up and down. Also James used to live in Texas before he moved to Ohio. Abby lived in Ohio so I was friends with her before I met James. Sorry for all the typos I’m freaking out. I don’t want to be friends with her anymore. I’ve started feeling uncomfortable around her because of these comments. My boyfriend shuts them down when he hears them, but she continues making them to me privately. How can I address this situation without causing unnecessary family drama?