u/PaperGloomy1212

20F here
USA, PR
Lots of text, please bare with me :(

Last period was may 27- 31

I haven’t had a partner in a long time, & although my cycles are long- my periods are quite regular. My partner is now working elsewhere and has to fly over for visits, he did and we had protected Intercourse 3 days, I got my period, and afterwards we proceeded to have protected sex for many more days. Always condoms + pullout to be safe. The only incident I can think of is a moment where a condom slipped and there is an existing possibility of sperm making it’s way in (june 5)
He flew out the 16th.

I had some unusual pink spotting and mild cramps the 18th to 19th. Then completely gone.

After that, I grew increasingly worried about implantation bleeding and started stressing out so much I was an emotional wreck.

Ever since, I’ve been getting the weirdest of symptoms aswell as currently 5-6 days late which is very unusual for me. I tested 3 different times and got negatives (30th june, 1st july, 3rd july). I started urinating a lot, i started getting loads of discharge constantly, cramps that would sometimes switch sides, bloating that would come and go, nausea, headaches, mood swings, my breasts feel slightly tender. I also started dreaming very vividly which is not very usual.

As of now, some of those symptoms have subsided ( frequent urination, constant discharge, nauseas, headaches, bloating ) and some have changed ( discharge went from frothy yellow to white creamy again, cramps have turned into more mild sensations on my abdomen or pelvis area )

My stress has gone significantly down knowing i’m hopefully on time if anything has truly happened, and so have the symptoms, but my period is nowhere to be found. I’m a college student and unfortunately struggling to find employment, so I can’t afford any more tests at the moment- and with my mom in control of my medical info, I can’t get ultrasounds, blood tests either, let alone visit a clinic.

I’m lost on what to do.. I had abortion pills from a bad pregnancy scare from two years ago after getting S/Ad by my partner at the time but right now only the mifepristone is good. The miso expired in 2025. I’m not even 100% sure i’m pregnant, but without my period, all I can say is that I cannot risk having a child. My partner is very supportive of me choosing to abort, but we don’t want children at all, my partner is in the process of getting a vasectomy. I don’t want a child, he doesn’t either, we can’t afford a child, I have studies and many things I want to do with my life and under no circumstance do I want to even leave room for the possibility of having one.

What should I do? I’m in the process of getting new pills from AidAccess. On the meantime, what should I do with the uncertainty? Should I take the Mifepristone? Should I wait to get my period? I need advice and support please. I know many would argue that my tests were negative but this is all so weird, I swear I can’t risk it at all. I don’t want to have a baby. I’ve seen people have false negatives and not even realize they’re pregnant until it’s far too late. I don’t want to go through that at all. Even if i’m not pregnant, I’d rather be 100% safe. Please help. I’m lost

Hello! 20F
My last period was May 28 - 30

The 5th of june there was a slip-up during round 2 where there was no ejaculation but condom almost slipped out in me completely. (Risk of precum containing sperm as he washed but didn’t pee after first round?) Condom was worn both times.

I had pink spotting and light cramps the 18th (Implantation bleeding? I never spot during ovulation, but it’s a possibility..)

a day / two ago I took pregnancy tests and they both came out negative

Now i’m two days late, but I feel straight up sick besides all the immense stress i’ve experienced from this scare. Eyes feel heavy, throat is irritated, no apetite, nauseous all day, i feel dizzy when I stand up, i feel slightly disoriented, more frequent urination that comes out cloudy. I have these annoying cramps where I usually get them but this time they shift sides, lower back pain, headache and back of the neck pain… no tiredness though.

So now i’m thinking.. are these escalating pregnancy symptoms? Am I just super sick and it’s delaying my period? Is a UTI possible? What is going on??? I’ve been so stressed these days over this, I cant take it any longer. Please help ease my mind, I’ve been trying to keep my stress low but everyday I wake up with more persistent symptoms.

I will be testing again this weekend, especially if period still doesn’t show. Please help

Hello! 20F here, i’m currently going insane. Any comment and advice is extremely helpful!

On June 5, I had protected sex with my boyfriend (condom) and he ejaculated in the condom but pulled out before ejaculating anyway. He went to the bathroom, disposed of the condom and showered / washed his genitals but didn’t pee. We decided to keep having sex with a condom, but the second time around it slipped and although he didn’t ejaculate the second time- I’m worried some of the precum contained sperm and made it’s way in due to the slipped condom.

I hadn’t had sex for nearly an entire year prior as my partner lives in a whole diff country. I’m not sure if this can affect my cycle?

My biggest mistake is that no plan B was taken.

June 18 I had some pink-ish discharge with two almost microscopic bits of blood but that was it.

My period was supposed to come June 27, still nothing. I’ve had occasional cramps, occasional bloating, some left sided pain that comes and goes, and a shit ton of anxiety. I took a pregnancy test today (unfortunately second time urinating in the morning since it was so early the first time and I hadn’t gotten the tests yet) and it came back negative. I’ve been getting lots of discharge but it’s super thin / creamy. I took a nap today and woke up nauseous and with a dull ache / upset stomach. I already have abortion pills with me, but i’m so stressed out I need advice! At this point i’m not sure if i’m overthinking anything, i’ve had real late periods in the past, but this time it’s a whole pregnancy scare. I know I wasn’t as responsible as I should’ve been, please be kind :,)

I have two more pregnancy tests. When else should I test?

+ My last period came from May 27 - May 31