Going cold out of blue after good chat
So, I'm a 27-year-old guy on a dating app. I matched with a cool 21-year-old girl, and we had a great conversation over a few days. We shared details about our lives, and the energy was definitely there.
Then I suggested that we have a phone call because I don't really like texting too much. She replied that we should go for a coffee instead. I told her that I'm running for town council and that I'm busy this weekend. She seemed impressed and asked about my program and plans.
I replied to her questions and also attached my campaign poster to the message. Since then, she has gone completely cold. No answer. I don't even know if she has seen the message, and I don't want to pay for the premium feature to find out.
There was no mention of an ex-boyfriend, no "I need more time," or anything like that. She simply disappeared. It kind of affected me because I felt there was a genuine connection there.
Any ideas?