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AITAH for being angry that my friend prioritised her autistic son over helping me view a property?

I’m F28 my friend F28. I’m planning to move back home, and I currently live over 300 miles away. Because of the distance, i asked someone to view properties for me and sent a clear message explaining exactly what I needed: photos of the rooms and measurements. I also paid for her transport there and back.

She brought her autistic son with her, which I completely understand. I love all of her children.

The problem is that she didn’t actually complete the viewing for me.
I messaged her 3 hours after the viewing for an update. She then sent me;

One photo of her son in the front room
One photo of him running around in the garden
A video of her and her son dancing in the car (which I paid for)
What I didn’t receive:

No kitchen photos
No bedroom photos
No bathroom photos
No hallway photos
No measurements

None of the information I had specifically asked for.
I was really frustrated, especially because I had been very clear beforehand about what I needed. She later acknowledged she had messed up. I’m angry af though kid

EDIT/INFO: To be clear, she didn't just go on her own she attended alongside a realtor (Estate Agent) that I paid for lol. I wanted a personal opinion as I was moving close to my home town. Thanks for everyone's advice.

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