listening to the new The Garden song and i got stuck on this part. isn’t that the same woman scream from Haunted Mound songs? Ghost Mountain was a special guest at their LA show recently too…
edited: any feats coming soon? any thoughts?
A week ago he told me he was going out with friends (tomorrow). 20 minutes ago I found out it’s actually just him and one friend of the opposite sex. I asked how long they’re gonna be out, and he said around 7hrs. I told him to have fun and he went to sleep, but I still feel sick to the stomach. It just doesn’t sit right with me cuz he barely spends that much time with me, and I don’t get why he didn’t just say from the start that it was one person instead of his group of friends?? It’s bothering me so much I actually feel nauseous
i’m 19. i’ve been in a relationship with my partner for almost 2 years now. while he’s always had an active social life (hanging out with friends, going to concerts, being active on social media, etc.), i’ve been the complete opposite since i’ve never really had steady friendships, and that kind of lifestyle just isn’t natural to me.
every time my partner tells me he’s going to spend time with other people, i start getting irrationally irritated and upset at him just for having friends. i tried to figure out why i react this way, and i realized it’s mostly jealousy. i envy his life. on top of that i feel insecure about how important i am to him. to be honest, he’s already getting tired of these outbursts and reassuring me.
the last thing that pushed me to write this post is that he recently started being more active on social media posting videos on tiktok (just average lipsyncs, nothing crazy). he started getting a lot of flirty comments from friends and random people like “you’re cute” or stuff like “damn i’d smash…” and what bothered me the most is that he was liking and replying to those comments. it made me feel disgusted, so i talked to him about it. after a long conversation, i managed to explain how i feel, and he kind of agreed to not engage with those comments, but he also said that this kind of thing is normal now, that friends and/or people online say stuff like that all the time, that he doesn’t take them seriously and i need to get used to it.
am i really just out of touch? to me, leaving flirty comments like that under a stranger’s posts isn’t normal, especially if you’re a friend flirting with someone who you know has a relationship. but is it actually normal? what should i change about myself or my life to stop being this sensitive, and is all of this might potentially ruin our relationship?