u/Patient_Stage_5129

I'm just wondering...

My roommate and I were discussing the kinda guys we were into, he's typically into bigger bearish guys and I found myself feeling hesitant to saying that I'm into fit dudes.

But after catching myself feeling hesitant I was wondering.. wait why is it a bad thing to admit that? And it's not bad for him to say he's into bearish guys.

Afterwards I said it with my chest lol.

But I'm just here for your opinions.. Is it a bad thing to admit in your opinion? If so why?

I am a black guy and I don't typically date other black guys.

I just find it awkward to be with someone that looks like me sexually.

For some reason this seems to aggravate some guys

I can't force myself to be attracted to something I'm not.

I'm not understanding why it's a big deal when it's my sex life