u/PeekAtChu1

I’ve been in a small networking group for a few years- there’s a new Ish guy I’ve been seeing there for a few months. He has never seemed interested in even greeting me or getting to know me which off the bat I found arrogant.

Long story short this guy seems to hate me for no reason- it’s awkward considering we already have a pretty small group and will often be in group convos. He avoids almost all eye contact, doesn’t seem to care at all to talk to me, and comes off as flippant. I haven’t had someone treat me in such a rude way since high school. He does seem to like my friend, if I chime in when they are talking he will basically stop talking and start scrolling on his phone.

I am so tempted to ask him what his problem is with me but I’m not sure there is a point since I dont even know this guy. For now I’ve started ignoring him right back. 

If you were me would you bother asking him what the fuck is up or would you just give him the same treatment back? Not sure if it’s relevant but I’ve heard him mention he’s audhd, however I don’t see him doing this to anyone else.

My 12 yo cat was diagnosed recently with stage 2 CKD, I bought him hill’s fish and chicken flavors of dry food.

I slowly mixed it in with his normal wet food over a few days and also ordered epakitin and put a bit of that in too along with his normal joint supplement to help with the phosphorous in the normal food.

Anyway as we switched to full kidney food he doesn’t like it and refuses to eat. He didn’t eat for 3 meals in a row so I now am back to mixing in some wet food for him and he will eat some of that but isn’t eating a lot.

Any advice on getting the cat to eat?? My other cat is having fun trying to knock him out of the way and steal his food meanwhile.