u/Periodtslayqueen

Hiiiii :)

I’ve posted on Reddit before and honestly learned a lot about myself through my experiences and interactions with people on here. I think I’ve grown a lot emotionally and figured out more about what I truly want in romance, so I’m trying this again because I really do want something genuine.

First off, I’m not looking for anything casual or short-term. I want a connection where we genuinely become part of each other’s everyday life. The age range I’m looking for is around 20–25 and open to anywhere around the world as long as they’re willing to work out time differences!

I’m looking for someone I can annoy 24/7, talk to for hours without getting bored, lose track of time with, and slowly build something real and meaningful alongside :)

Here’s a little about me:

- I enjoy cooking and experimenting with new recipes!
- I also love making fun drinks, from matcha lattes to espresso martinis.
- One thing I learned from being on here is that I’m probably way clingier than I originally thought 😭 I want the kind of love where we’re both crazy about each other, the yearning, emotional, young-and-angsty type of romance like something straight out of The Notebook.
- I love being updated throughout the day and being “annoyed” back with random texts, thoughts, and affection.
- I also realized I get attached through consistency, communication, and mental stimulation. Persistence and effort make me weakkk. If we click, I’ll probably want to talk to you all day every day, not gonna lie

Personality-wise, I’d say I’m clingy, affectionate, emotionally open, kind of sensitive, and very much an “us against the world” type of person when I really care about someone. Though honestly, the journey of getting there can be a little difficult because I play hard to get way too much sometimes 😭 I can accidentally come off like I dislike you when, in reality, I’m just guarded at first LOL.
But deep down, I’m a hopeless romantic, and I love people who are protective, reassuring, obsessed in a healthy way, and who genuinely want a relationship where their partner is also their best friend.

I also really love people who hate dry small talk. Tell me about your weird interests, your current fixations, your childhood lore, literally anything. I love conversations that feel natural and endless.

I’d love someone who:

- Has a lot of love and attention to give and isn’t afraid to express it
- Wants consistency and effort.
- Is affectionate and possibly even more clingier than me
- Values emotional closeness and emotional intelligence
Is attentive, kind, respectful, and loyal.
- Actually wants a relationship and not just temporary attention

Physically, I’m curvy, so please just be kind and respectful about that <3

Bonus points if you:
- Send random paragraphs.
- Are chalant!!!
- Like constant communication and quality time.

Please don’t just send “hey” Introduce yourself a little!
Tell me your age, where you’re from, what you’re into, and what made you message me :) You’d be surprised how far effort can go. ;)

Last but not least, keep your hopes up just like me! <3

Yayay happy birthday to my Reddit account!! We’re 1 year old! 🎉🥳🎊

22F looking for a serious, intentional relationship

Helloooo Reddit :) (F4M)

I’m 22F, based in the US (but open to anywhere if it’s the right person). I’ve posted here a few times before without much luck, but I’ve gotten a lot clearer on what I actually want, and it’s something real and long lasting.

I’m not in a rush to slap a label on things or jump into something intense overnight, but I am looking for something intentional. I want to build something meaningful, stable, and full of love with someone who truly aligns with me. Maybe it’s a little hopeless romantic of me, but I do believe in finding that person who feels like home.

A little about me: I really value consistency, honesty, and effort. I love deep conversations just as much as the simple things: trying new food spots, café hopping, watching random shows, or just talking for hours about life. I enjoy museums, traveling, experimenting in the kitchen, and journaling in my free time. At the same time, I’ll be honest—my personality can be a bit fiery and often considered contradicting. It’s not for everyone, but it’s very me.

What I’m not looking for: situationships, mixed signals, or inconsistency. I don’t expect constant texting, but I do value communication and mutual effort. I’d also prefer someone close to my age, and ideally someone whose values align with mine (not overly religious or strongly right-leaning).

What I am looking for: someone kind, emotionally available, and genuinely interested in building something, not just passing time. Someone who’s ready for a real connection, whether it develops slowly or unexpectedly fast.

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. Tell me about yourself, what you’re looking for, what makes you happy… anything but just “hi” or “hello” :) Effort goes a long way, and I think it says a lot about who you are.

Let’s see if this finally works out. I’m still hopeful.