u/PerspectiveFuzzy365

Sorry I’m annoyed this is just a rant

Why does everyone claim there’s no male yumeshippers

As a yumeshipper, EVERY other yumeshipper I’m close with is a dude, but you know what makes me and those people I know different? We are trans guys! That’s right, there’s so many male yumeshippers they’re just all trans and I’ve seen first hand how much people just don’t want to accept the trans male yumes as “male yumeshippers”

And this isn’t to say that EVERY male yumeshipper is trans, but you know what makes cis males different? Either they yumeship with a guy and people assume they’re a woman or a trans guy (and then refuse to accept the identity they decide for the person) because of heteronormative stereotype, or the cis male yumeshipper yumeships with a girl and suddenly they’re not treated as a real yumeshipper, suddenly they’re treated just like a disgusting looser creep with a waifu! But I hate to break it to you, trans male yumeshippers are male yumeshippers, cis male yumeshippers can date men without being secretly a woman, and can date women without it being creepy, and are still allowed to be a yumeshipper by doing that, and there is SO MANY male yumeshippers yall just need to open your eyes and your mind

I have a LOT of f/os, and I have found that before I ever add them to my f/o list or publicly announce them, I will yumeship with them privately for a while, I don’t know why I do this, maybe just to make sure that I’m happy with them, and see if I will really enjoy yumeshipping with that character before I let the whole internet know, I guess. Idk I was wondering if anyone else does this?

I’m on the drosperinone slynd pill, I missed a pill a couple days ago, but didn’t realise and took my next one as normal, and then today I realised and just took the missed one AND my regular one, I want to know if this means I’m still protected from pregnancy or not, I have taken all 3 pills (the regular ones since it happened and the missed one) so all pills I need to take up until now, but I just need to know if taking the missed one an entire 43 hours late is going to ruin my protection against pregnancy

I have been on this pill for almost 5 months and have never missed or been more than 2 hours late on a pill before now, and also missed my usual inactive pills and went straight onto an active pill pack for my last pack

I am 17F (tho I’m trans ftm I just feel my biological sex is important for this) and my bf is 18M.
We never had sex until after I got on my drosperinone pill, and for the first couple months after I got on my pill we used a condom but financially and cuz of personal situations condoms are kinda hard to get hold of, so when we were comfortable enough we just stopped using them, it’s been both of our first times, I want to say I am taking my drosperinone pills PERFECTLY and not missed a day or took it late for 4 months. He has always pulled out so I know I sound crazy to guess I’ve gotten pregnant because even googling it it comes up as HIGHLY unlikely that I’d get pregnant with pull out and a birth control pill taken perfectly.
My mum had me when she was 16, I’m a trans man with severe health issues mentally and physically, and I generally have a strong dislike for kids, both me and my boyfriend do not want kids and me being pregnant is the worse possible outcome for either of us, if it is true I will abort it no hesitation, but first I need to know, I won’t go and get a test until I get an answer from here, I will have to get it through a doctor not a at home test because that’s simply not in my budget, so I don’t want to look crazy to the doctor by turning up for a stupid reason.
I think it’s important to mention I have severe health anxiety and digestive issues that make me nauseous a lot

Now for my symptoms
It looks like my breasts and nipples are getting bigger though I can’t tell if that’s related to dysphoria making me see it that way or something I should worry about

I have been feeling frequent headaches and evening nausea to a frequency I haven’t really felt much, as it’s very uncommon I have digestive flare ups EVERY night

I had a severe migraine completely out of nowhere a couple days ago

I feel overall heavier but once again unsure if I’m just gaining weight cuz admittedly I eat a lot and do hardly anything

I’ve been sleepier to the point I’m planning my days around having at least one half hour nap each day, but I’ve also been restless at night, I haven’t been sleeping until 1-3am when I’d usually sleep at 10-12 but once again, unsure if that’s jsut cuz it’s summer break and I’ve been pushing myself subconsciously to stay up with my bf who sleeps at 3-5am every night

I’ve been having really vivid and sometimes disturbing dreams but this is some thing I’m also unsure about as I sustained pretty bad trauma growing up which lead to me having really terrifying dreams about a year ago every night

I’ve been more irritable and emotional

There’s other stuff I’m not remembering I’m sure but every time I look it up I’m told it COULD be pregnancy or it could be cuz of the pill I’m taking so I’m really unsure.
Overall I’m just looking for some reassurance and to know if I should take this up with a doctor or not, as much as I really don’t want to it would be genuinely terrible if I became noticeably pregnant as 1. I hate kids and have no desire to ever have one or destroy my body even slightly carrying one and 2. My mum doesn’t even know I’m dating my bf let alone having sex, if she knew I was dating him she’d literally disconnect me from any means of contacting him no matter how good he is or how much she likes him she just does that, if she knew I was having sex it’d be the same response with the addition of invalidating my trans identity and my sexual trauma as she links both of those with a complete restriction and inability to have intimacy, and she has already made it abundantly clear that if I got pregnant whilst under her roof she’d disown me and leave me homeless

I’m gonna cry! The only Benimaru figurine I can find is like £170! I can’t afford that and I won’t ever have that much money to spare so now I’m just upset

Doubles dni

Feeling sad about Ls death, could people please comment photos of my lovely L Lawilet :3

My bf offered me to take a figurine he has of my f/o (L from deathnote) as he really likes the character too so he got the figurine, but he’s not that crazy about figurines and got it for relatively cheap compared to the price now, so he’s offering to just give it to me as he doesn’t need it.

I’d love to have it but I know he really likes the character and I feel bad taking it so I might just not say anything and then the offer will fizzle out of existence.

It’s that one where he’s sat on his stupid fancy chair

Doubles DNI

Doubles dni
Spoilers for death note anime

Idk man I was just vibing, my fyp has been mostly L for the last few hours and it’s made me really happy, then I got an edit of him dying to the song beautiful boy and I can’t stop crying, I wasn’t effected this much by the death when I watched it in the anime, genuinely what is going on

Asking everyone who lost interest in an f/o, what did you do? How do you interact with the character now? Do you still yumeship with them regardless? How do you feel about them? What stopped the interest?

IF you have a self insert, do they look like you or not? And do they share the same name as you or have you changed things up?

You and your f/o decide you’re gonna dye a streak of each of your hair the same colour so you’re matching and cute! Which colour would it be (can’t be a colour you or your f/o already have in your hairs)

I am non sharing, and I get a lot of questions, due to my mile long f/o list on how and why I can manage to be non sharing with SO many characters, but the entire reason is due to an overall jealousy towards anyone I see who might have more than me of any of my f/o’s when it comes to art or merch or whatever, and because the characters I yumeship with mean so much to me I feel uncomfortable around doubles due to the risk that they may interpret or characterise the character differently to me, since my own characterisation of the character is so important and comforting to me, I hate when people do it differently.

So I’m curious what YOUR reason for being non sharing is, especially if you’re non sharing with multiple characters, and if you have another sharing status, feel free to share your view on doubles/why you have that sharing status too!

I usually don’t like interacting with them because I’m very specific about how they’re interpreted, but I’ve seen a lot of yumes who end up dating their f/o’s fictokins so I’m very curious what people think themselves

Ignore any pre-existing baking skills you or your f/o have or don’t have

If you baked together, what would you bake

If you guys hung out at each others house, would your f/o prefer you went to their house or yours?