u/Petty_assistant530

My husband has been having a year and a half long affair. He just made WO1. I just found out and I am two months postpartum.

I don’t have a lot of evidence besides I have people looking her up because I know enough information right now to find her. She’s brand new enlisted into the army.

He’s mostly blamed this on me. I found her on Instagram and messaged her and he’s been leaving to talk on the phone with her for hours at a time and o have to take care of the kids and the house duties completely by myself.

Yesterday he took my son to soccer practice and called her and talked to her the whole way there in front of him. My son asked if daddy was going to find a new house because he told her he was leaving. He said daddy was arguing with a girl the whole way home.

That was like the last straw for me. I want him to be able to support his children but I am like 99% sure I am going to his command at this point after that.

I received a call from them with somebody who is providing updates for my loan. My counselor disappeared on me in the middle of May and never packaged my loan. I missed out on the GRAD PLUS because of this.

I am supposed to get updates on if it will be disbursed by the end of the week.

If I don’t receive the funds I’ve already contacted several lawyers and I will be making a complaint with the DOE OIG, CA education board, and I will not stop posting across socials to include LinkedIn, Facebook, Reddit, and I will be updating my reviews on Google and yelp.

This is NOT okay. I am in a very bad place financially and depend on this. I see lots of posts on here about this and we need to unite. Please take time to report this illegal activity with the proper channels.