u/Photographyboy420

Hi I 24M need some insight on a situation. So my girlfriend 25F is bipolar and I knew that going into the relationship. She is in therapy as far as I know and is on meds but thinks they might not be working as well right now. There have obviously been ups and downs with that but I’ve just kept being supportive and the bad stints usually get better after a little bit. She has also been very adamant about a future with me and has said many times how thankful she is for me and for the fact I stay through the tough times.

However about a month ago she got into a really bad headspace and said she needed some time to herself and to kinda not talk to or see anyone for a little while. She still texted me every few days and gave me updates as well as responded in some way on TikTok every day to continue our TikTok streak.

This was all fine until Monday when she had a bad situation with her mother that spiraled her even farther down. She was saying some alarming things that really made me concerned. She had been asking if she could come stay with me for a few days but then went silent after a few texts. She ended up blocking me on TikTok and when I tried to call her the call went immediately to voicemail. I panicked and ended up texting her mom to see if she had heard from her and to see if she was okay which unfortunately is a major emotional boundary for her that I crossed by doing that. She called me furious that I texted her mom and we argued for about 30 seconds until she angrily hung up.

I decided to leave it for the night and texted her the next morning (Tuesday) apologizing for crossing the line and calmly stating it was just because I was afraid in the moment and didn’t really know what else to do. She’s never responded to that but then yesterday (Wednesday) she blocked me on 2 of my 4 instagram accounts as well. As far as I know she hasn’t blocked me on text, Snapchat, the 2 other instagram accounts (which I think she just forgot I had cuz I never use them) or Facebook which I also don’t think she knows I even have.

Do you think it’s just an episode and she’ll end up coming back in time or did she split and there’s a low to 0% chance she ever speaks to me again. I love her with my whole heart and I don’t want to lose her but it’s also really tough and I don’t really know what to do.

Hi I 24M need some insight on a situation. So my girlfriend 25F is bipolar and I knew that going into the relationship. She is on medication and is in therapy as far as I know. There have obviously been ups and downs with that but I’ve just kept being supportive and the bad stints usually get better after a little bit. She has also been very adamant about a future with me and has said many times how thankful she is for me and for the fact I stay through the tough times.

However about a month ago she got into a really bad headspace and said she needed some time to herself and to kinda not talk to or see anyone for a little while. She still texted me every few days and gave me updates as well as responded in some way on TikTok every day to continue our TikTok streak. This was all fine until Monday when she had a bad situation with her mother that spiraled her even farther down. She was saying some alarming things that really made me concerned. She had been asking if she could come stay with me for a few days but then went silent after a few texts. She ended up blocking me on TikTok and when I tried to call her the call went immediately to voicemail. I panicked and ended up texting her mom to see if she had heard from her and to see if she was okay which unfortunately is a major emotional boundary for her that I crossed by doing that. She called me furious that I texted her mom and we argued for about 30 seconds until she angrily hung up.

I decided to leave it for the night and texted her the next morning (Tuesday) apologizing for crossing the line and calmly stating it was just because I was afraid in the moment and didn’t really know what else to do. She’s never responded to that but then yesterday (Wednesday) she blocked me on 2 of my 4 instagram accounts as well. As far as I know she hasn’t blocked me on text, Snapchat, the 2 other instagram accounts (which I think she just forgot I had cuz I never use them) or Facebook which I also don’t think she knows I even have.

Do you think it’s just an episode and she’ll end up coming back in time or did she split and there’s a low to 0% chance she ever speaks to me again. I love her with my whole heart and I don’t want to lose her but it’s also really tough right now and I don’t really know what to do.