Can I get some fam advice and maybe a happy b-day...?
Hello!! I three days its my(currently 15F) birthday!! Im turning 16, and for some context, my dad is in this biker club/gang, and both of my parents are very emotionally distant. I have had mental health issues, and have entirely thought I was going to make it this far. My dad texted saying he wasn't going to come home for my birthday, because there's this big event down in Texas that if he doesnt go to, he'll be kicked out of the club. The same club that's tearing our family apart, that he said and promised he would stop being so into. And my mom's going to be babysitting on my birthday and not be home, but at least shes mostly present.
Sorry for the rant, and im mainly asking if there's anything ideas I can do to convince my dad to be home more?