▲ 761 r/ffxiv
Can’t wait to take my Chocobo on dungeon runs in Evercold!
Good job choco-pal, A+ effort.
u/Pitiful_Lettuce6373 — 1 day ago
▲ 176 r/TalesFromDF
A trap party before we even instanced
Trying to clear m12s before the new ulti and behind on prog due to work and life. Joined a PF at my prog point (idyllic/enrage) and wait for the fill. Was waiting a bit which is understandable for a Monday prog party. We start to fill and I have mtg arena on the other screen to pass time. I start to see us fill, and as anyone who would like to get the clear would, I close out of my other game. Meanwhile the party lead says “just got stuck in a deadlock match,” when we’re at 7 out of 8 members.
The other healer who I think was with the party lead is surprisingly patient. We fill, and the PL ask for 20 mins!?!?
The reasonable DRK, asked the right question “what?” And then promptly left when it was explained. Understandably so.
Dude close the game. Don’t waste people’s time.
Funnily enough I think I’ve seen this person before in parties do the same thing. So be wary folks.
I’ve never played Deadlock, and if you like it, fantastic!! Just don’t be this guy. Please.
u/Pitiful_Lettuce6373 — 3 months ago
▲ 7 r/LongDistance
I (33M) am suffering in the inaction of my (30F) girlfriend after an emotional affair.
She cheated. She sent pics. She said I love you. They spent days watching anime together while I wondered why she wasn’t emotional available, while I starved for love.
We’re working on things. And making progress. I believe she ‘is’ trying. But the person she has an emotional affair with is still in mutual discords. She’s still talking to other of her male friends (lewd artist) and pushing boundaries as she’s letting them “draw” her characters from the very game we meet. She still, even with her trying to close the gap, seems “distracted.”
I don’t know how much of this is the rawness of finding out a month ago. My insecurities. I just wish that she would take action on the things that I’ve communicated make me uncomfortable. I feel like focusing on us, and eliminating all possibilities of intimacy with other people, and to get the person who she cheated on me with fully out of our lives, isn’t too much to ask.
My life sucks right now. Work, mental health, she is a good and beautiful person, I believe that. But she has a habit of ignoring a problem rather than addressing it. I just want to feel safe again without having to leave someone I know just made a mistake and that I can be happy with.
u/Pitiful_Lettuce6373 — 3 months ago