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Nutzer an eine Schule wegen Verdacht auf Diebstahl gemeldet
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Nutzer an eine Schule wegen Verdacht auf Diebstahl gemeldet

Hi ich habe vorhin eine Nutzerin auf Vinted gefunden, die 2 iPads (8. & 9. Gen) auf Vinted verkauft hat.

Das Problem was ich eher hatte war, dass man den Namen der Schule auf dem Hintergrund von den iPads gesehen hatte, weswegen ich vorsichtshalber die Schule gesucht und angeschrieben habe.

Mit zwei PDFs wo man beide iPads plus die Vinted Daten einmal sieht.

Ging das vllt zu weit oder war es doch das richtige? Hättet ihr das gleiche gemacht oder eher weniger?

edit: an die eigene Schule*

u/PixelWhis — 3 hours ago
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Why is she like this?

Okay quick back story:

Today I (f21)went shopping for some bras with my sister (f15) because none of her fit her right and she just needed some. She didn’t know about it and I told her on the way to the shop (already to late too turn around). It didn’t take long, around 15 mins tops, which is tbh insanely fast. But I also took the shop, where I buy my bras from so no real surprise there.

The price was around 219 Euros buut it was a buy two sets (pants and bra) and get two for free. And I got myself two bras and four panties (because she didn’t want any) for free and saved around 219 Euros aswell.

Main Problem now:

My Mom(f58) is now suuper pissed at me without a real reason. When I first told her about the purchase she didn’t had a problem with it and now she is quite upset about it. She even threatened to cut them up, which I shut down rather quickly by by telling her no or we would have a massive problem with one another.

I also asked her what exactly her problem with it was and she would elaborate on that so I continued to ask her further. She switched up every single one of her excuses the more I shut her other ones down.

A few of her excuses and my answers were:

  1. They were to expensive -> Okay then I bought myself two sets and my sister got the two sets for free.

  2. She didn’t need them -> her boobs were practically falling out of her old one because they didn’t fit her right.

  3. She could have gone with me -> You told me that it was no problem if I would take her someday

  4. They could have looked in less expensive shops -> my sister is fairly large chests and most shops only go up to 65E which wouldn’t have worked for her and why I took her to my usual shop(I am size 65I so I should kinda now about it myself)

We talked/screamed to/at each other for around 15 Minutes with no compromise from her and I still don’t understand why.

Why aren’t I allowed to take her bra shopping, when it only took 15 minutes and we found two good ones for her? I have a job and my own money so I wanted to gift her something. I didn’t expect them to pay me back for anything but she offered and then took it back, which tbh is fair enough.

At first she wanted to return them, then she wanted to CUT them up and lastly she said, that I could gift her them for Christmas? Which I don’t get. Why can I gift her them for Christmas but not now?

She also threatened to not let me take my sister to an event we wanted to go to(already paid and cosplay ready).

In the end I told her how prouuud and should be of herself for letting her own daughter suffer because she can’t swallow her own ego and she should be ashamed of herself for reacting the way she does when she didn’t even pay for the stuff.

In the end I think it was because my sister seemed to actually wanna go bra shopping with me(she didn’t I tricked her) and and thats why she is so pissed at me. But I guess I will never know.

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u/PixelWhis — 24 days ago