I need help and advice on this… am I a vicitim of SA?or am I being dramatic?
For context me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months now and in recent months have had a fairly sexually active relationship where getting each other off and general touching is pretty much normalized. Looking at the situation I believe putting myself into this position was a mistake because this is both our first major relationship. It’s also important to note that we our both very open about our bodies and how we look. However she has never seen me without an erection and yesterday she really wanted to because I was flavor and she heard that when they are flavor they are “cute”. I told her no at first but she replied that she’d do anything at which point I still said no so she continued to try and convince me to let her see it at which point I folded and told her she could see it. She then immediately reach for my waist band and I reacted by pulling away and walking away. She then caught back up to me and pull my pants just below my waist to where she could see my dick. I then became upset with her but soon after made up because she made out with me. For the rest of the day I didn’t really think much of it but now I realize I was seriously uncomfortable and wanted to say no but I didn’t want to upset her or embarrass her so I ended up saying she could. I also don’t believe she had any mal intent and was just curious but I think I was very obviously uncomfortable with it. I also don’t want to bring this up to her to not make her upset or feel guilty or make me seem like I’m seeking attention because she had been sa’d in the past a couple of times by other people where in the flip side I don’t believe I have been. But anyway I would really love to receive some advice on how I should handle this with her or how I can process this or atleast whether I was or was not a vicitim.