u/Pleasant_Tower_3645

Asking for advice from Married Couples who are in LDR

My husband had an established career as a doctor in the Ph and he provided really well. Meanwhile, I've never had a fulfilling career as a medtech back home. Before we got together pangarap ko na talaga mag abroad kaya sinuportahan niya ako all throughout the process. Sabi niya he does not want na siya mag hold back sakin to pursue my dreams. We're currently in AU as PR. Nahihirapan na kami sa situation namin now and my husband is very unhappy here although he's trying his real best (ayaw niya na mag doctor dito pls dont ask ibang kwento po ito huhu). We recently had an emotional conversation na paano if hindi na lang kami nagpakasal and baka nakapag migrate pa ako ng mas maaga. Pero nandito na kami and ang hirap because he left everything to be with me. Isang option na naisip lang niya is umuwi na lang muna siya sa Ph while I pursue my career here. Wala naman kaming plans na mag-anak. And maybe we can meet halfway na bumisita siya dito and vice versa. Eventually gusto ko din umuwi to be with him pag makaipon pa ako ng pera. Meron po bang mag-asawa na ganito ang set up? If meron, kumusta po kayo and paano niyo po nagagawa? Please be kind huhuhu

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u/Pleasant_Tower_3645 — 2 months ago