u/Possible_End_7851

On what basis did they allot the shortlist of the students who can give the test of ICICI Bank and Nation with Namo? I am a student from circuital with Cgpa 8.5+ and still did not get the shortlist to even write the test 😭 in both the companies.

So, starting with something about myself. I am a very introverted person. Don't talk to a lot of people outside my circle and just don't really go out much. So let the story begin.

When I was in my Class 11 and 12 (we have classes 1 to 12 you can think of it as high school , last 2 years of school before college). I used to have this girl in our class. Not too beautiful but yes decent looking, we were good friends and I thought of her as just good friends nothing more.

Then, we went to different Colleges but stayed in touch. in my first semester she confessed that she used to like me , I was thrilled. I never had a girlfriend nor talked to a lot of girls. I asked if she still liked me to which she denied. we continued to be friends. then in my second semester we got close. I had never talked to people on phone calls or voice chats, just texts. She asked me to talk on calls so I slowly agreed and It went nice. We became best friends for a better part of 4 months. She said she still liked me last semester. I asked her if she still does and can we be a thing but she denies citing her family won't allow citing differences. I didn't push because for me that friend was valuable. I did a lot for her, for example she had a coding course in her college whose classes clashed with mine. I skipped my classes on that day for the whole semester to help her in the class assignments which were to be submitted then and there. I tried doing a lot for her. and she did too she was the best. We became best friends and talked for about 2hours a day about each other and everything and knew everything about the other. These were the best days.

Next we got a vacation and things started to go down from here. I wanted to talk but she said that she is dieting and is tired all day so she can't talk. So I asked okay we can chat that is not an issue but she disagreed with that too. I pressed a little so she says that ok I will talk then if I die I'll have you called in my funeral ceremony. I was hurt so I didn't push. Next (third) semester came. At the start of the semester I got into some problems during room allotment and things got bad (that is a story for another time) but it was bad. I called her saying that "hey I am having a bad day and want somebody to rant to" she said she can't talk now because she was busy taking introductions of Fresher Batch (new batch of college students) she said we can chat so I was okay but she didn't see my message and didn't even bother to ask how I was doing for the whole week. Next week she comes to talk but I avoid to which she asks what happened I told her she then tells her that she had a fight with her father that is why she couldn't talk with me but yes she could take introductions of freshers. I believed her let it slide. Then something strange started, she wouldn't talk and always be busy in college clubs and fests. I would see her stories about celebrating birthdays , parties going on trips with her new found friends. So I threatened to end the friendship to which she said that this would never happen and she would make time to talk. I agreed but things didn't get better they got worse.

Not only now she doesn't have time to talk on voice calls , she won't chat saying that She is out of habit on chatting and won't be able to write. She never initiated a conversation on her side and rarely talked when she saw I got upset and was about to leave. I tried telling her that I liked her , she was single at that time. and if we could get together she declined. I even got the point that I said that I can wait for her if she would be free in coming years and still be ready but she still declined that but she insisted that we stay friends. After that we had a few arguments and at this time our 4th semester has ended. She said that she is also ready to restore our friendship but that level won't be possible. She said that she will make time, I said ok. But after a few times I saw I was the only one initiating a conversation and she would just cut it short with generic replies as yes, ok, ohh. I haven't texted / called her since and she hasn't either it's been months since she initiated a conversation from her side. When asked about what she is up to, she won't say that I would get bored and there is nothing to say. neither is she interested in what I am doing (for example I told her once that I'm working on a startup she was least curious about it, I literally was so hurt that I told her that why didn't you ask about it, she said tell me then so I told that you should've asked then she told me that okay she will ask in a few days then I can tell her , She haven't asked about it till date.)

Well now that my feelings for her are fading that I am realising this all. It was just a rant but any opinions and/or criticism is very appreciated (please don't be very harsh), I am thinking of cutting all contacts with her but do want to have a final conversation to ask what and why she did that. Guess this is the story of how once best friends who talked and chatted about everything knew everything about each other become strangers.

Thank you.

Alternative Account so she can't find it.

So, starting with something about myself. I am a very introverted person. Don't talk to a lot of people outside my circle and just don't really go out much. So let the story begin.

When I was in my Class 11 and 12 (we have classes 1 to 12 you can think of it as high school , last 2 years of school before college). I used to have this girl in our class. Not too beautiful but yes decent looking, we were good friends and I thought of her as just good friends nothing more.

Then, we went to different Colleges but stayed in touch. in my first semester she confessed that she used to like me , I was thrilled. I never had a girlfriend nor talked to a lot of girls. I asked if she still liked me to which she denied. we continued to be friends. then in my second semester we got close. I had never talked to people on phone calls or voice chats, just texts. She asked me to talk on calls so I slowly agreed and It went nice. We became best friends for a better part of 4 months. She said she still liked me last semester. I asked her if she still does and can we be a thing but she denies citing her family won't allow citing differences. I didn't push because for me that friend was valuable. I did a lot for her, for example she had a coding course in her college whose classes clashed with mine. I skipped my classes on that day for the whole semester to help her in the class assignments which were to be submitted then and there. I tried doing a lot for her. and she did too she was the best. We became best friends and talked for about 2hours a day about each other and everything and knew everything about the other. These were the best days.

Next we got a vacation and things started to go down from here. I wanted to talk but she said that she is dieting and is tired all day so she can't talk. So I asked okay we can chat that is not an issue but she disagreed with that too. I pressed a little so she says that ok I will talk then if I die I'll have you called in my funeral ceremony. I was hurt so I didn't push. Next (third) semester came. At the start of the semester I got into some problems during room allotment and things got bad (that is a story for another time) but it was bad. I called her saying that "hey I am having a bad day and want somebody to rant to" she said she can't talk now because she was busy taking introductions of Fresher Batch (new batch of college students) she said we can chat so I was okay but she didn't see my message and didn't even bother to ask how I was doing for the whole week. Next week she comes to talk but I avoid to which she asks what happened I told her she then tells her that she had a fight with her father that is why she couldn't talk with me but yes she could take introductions of freshers. I believed her let it slide. Then something strange started, she wouldn't talk and always be busy in college clubs and fests. I would see her stories about celebrating birthdays , parties going on trips with her new found friends. So I threatened to end the friendship to which she said that this would never happen and she would make time to talk. I agreed but things didn't get better they got worse.

Not only now she doesn't have time to talk on voice calls , she won't chat saying that She is out of habit on chatting and won't be able to write. She never initiated a conversation on her side and rarely talked when she saw I got upset and was about to leave. I tried telling her that I liked her , she was single at that time. and if we could get together she declined. I even got the point that I said that I can wait for her if she would be free in coming years and still be ready but she still declined that but she insisted that we stay friends. After that we had a few arguments and at this time our 4th semester has ended. She said that she is also ready to restore our friendship but that level won't be possible. She said that she will make time, I said ok. But after a few times I saw I was the only one initiating a conversation and she would just cut it short with generic replies as yes, ok, ohh. I haven't texted / called her since and she hasn't either it's been months since she initiated a conversation from her side. When asked about what she is up to, she won't say that I would get bored and there is nothing to say. neither is she interested in what I am doing (for example I told her once that I'm working on a startup she was least curious about it, I literally was so hurt that I told her that why didn't you ask about it, she said tell me then so I told that you should've asked then she told me that okay she will ask in a few days then I can tell her , She haven't asked about it till date.)

Well now that my feelings for her are fading that I am realising this all. It was just a rant but any opinions and/or criticism is very appreciated (please don't be very harsh), I am thinking of cutting all contacts with her but do want to have a final conversation to ask what and why she did that. Guess this is the story of how once best friends who talked and chatted about everything knew everything about each other become strangers.

Thank you.

Alternative Account so she can't find it.