u/Prestigious_Rock_923

I'm 21 and i've never had a long term relationship. Weirdly enough, I'm not super keen on them. I've had maybe.... 3 boyfriends. They've all been either strangely distant/unstable or extremely extreme and intense. but all short lived. I don't want to get married i dont' really want to date even. I like being single. But sometimes i wish i could experience dating someone for a few years. just living and growing with someone and seeing how that goes, idk. imagine that. I've never even had a close friend for that long. idk man... idk.

I (f, 21) don't know if anyone else experience this but it happens to me about once a month since I've moved here. I just mind my business and a man comes up to me asking if I know about any cafe or bar around and I'll say "maybe around there or down the street" and I try to help then they'll say thanks and leave.

But I always wonder because, I look ang moh and they are Singaporean. And it's not like there's no one else around. I'm not as familiar with this country as a Singaporean probably would be. Let alone, you have google and Google maps on your phone. I'm all about social interaction and everyone helping each other out. I think it's great for everyone to help others as a community. It's just that the circumstances seem odd.

Is it a scam or something or are they really just asking for directions?