u/Prestigious_Sheep928

Hi

I would like to know have you seen or do you know people sending money to Gaza trough person trough Whatsapp , who says he/she is collecting. Then after sending money, they have sent videos as proof with a man holding a paper whit text thanking and the date. And clips of people receiving the help in bags of food.
For me these videos have got me scared it’s AI made (but really well). Do you know if there’s scam like that going on?

I wanted to ask for some Islamic perspectives on this because it's been bothering me.
My husband often (1-4 times a year) borrows small amounts of money from friends (around €50–300). He always pays them back on time, so that's not the issue. What bothers me is that these loans are usually for things that aren't necessary and could easily wait until we have the money.
We're married and have children, and I feel uncomfortable with him making borrowing from friends a regular habit. I've told him how I feel, but he says it's not a problem because he always repays the money.
From an Islamic perspective, is this kind of frequent borrowing for non-essential things discouraged? And is it normal for me to feel upset that he keeps doing it even after I've expressed my concerns?
I'm not trying to judge him—I just want to understand whether my feelings are reasonable and how other Muslims view this.