▲ 25 r/TransLater
Don’t think I look too bad for 50.
What are your thoughts? Hoping to start HRT soon and that should make a massive difference to me. I definitely need more help with my makeup 😂
u/PrincessLisaMckenzie — 7 days ago
u/PrincessLisaMckenzie
Looking for new friends
Hi. MTF 50 Looking for new friends to chat to, share experiences and maybe even catch up in person in and around Toowoomba. Not out to my family yet (my wife knows I crossdress and suspects I am trans but she doesn’t know the whole story) and feeling very alone at the moment. My only one true friend who knew about the woman in me passed away 18 months ago and since then I don’t have anyone I can open up to. I have a few mates but none that I could talk to about being a woman that’s for sure. Anyway PM me if you’re up to it.
u/PrincessLisaMckenzie — 9 days ago
▲ 16 r/transplace
Such a euphoric day.
So today I took the day off work to travel and have my first doctors appointment. Turns out my doctor didn’t turn up today and I was disappointed as this was a proper transgender GP. Anyway I wasn’t wasting my appointment and asked for another doctor. They couldn’t guarantee one that knew what they were doing but they gave me a different appointment and different doctor. I walked in. She asked me what I wanted and I told her straight up I’m a trans female and would like to get my bloodwork’s sorted so I could start HRT. She didn’t bat an eyelid, asked me a couple of questions and then gave me the referral for bloods…. Down to pathology and bloods taken and can go back next week and see either the doc I saw today or the one I was meant to and start straight away. Blown away by just how simple it was and all the while dressed in women’s clothes although still presenting like a man. Spent the rest of the afternoon shopping and spoiling myself….. but tell me the T-shirt and the jumper weren’t a sign…… seriously I am so happy right now. I still have to come out to my wife and family and friends but for now I’m living on a cloud of bliss and happiness. Now for the drive home before I have to pull over and get changed again into husband mode. I can’t wait to not have to do this anymore.
u/PrincessLisaMckenzie — 24 days ago
▲ 11 r/TransLater
Such a euphoric day.
So today I took the day off work to travel and have my first doctors appointment. Turns out my doctor didn’t turn up today and I was disappointed as this was a proper transgender GP. Anyway I wasn’t wasting my appointment and asked for another doctor. They couldn’t guarantee one that knew what they were doing but they gave me a different appointment and different doctor. I walked in. She asked me what I wanted and I told her straight up I’m a trans female and would like to get my bloodwork’s sorted so I could start HRT. She didn’t bat an eyelid, asked me a couple of questions and then gave me the referral for bloods…. Down to pathology and bloods taken and can go back next week and see either the doc I saw today or the one I was meant to and start straight away. Blown away by just how simple it was and all the while dressed in women’s clothes although still presenting like a man. Spent the rest of the afternoon shopping and spoiling myself….. but tell me the T-shirt and the jumper weren’t a sign…… seriously I am so happy right now. I still have to come out to my wife and family and friends but for now I’m living on a cloud of bliss and happiness. Now for the drive home before I have to pull over and get changed again into husband mode. I can’t wait to not have to do this anymore.
u/PrincessLisaMckenzie — 24 days ago
▲ 1 r/asktransgender
Need urgent help/advice
So anyway been dressing for most of my life, came out to my wife about 3 years into our marriage (married 23 years now). Youngest about to turn 18. At first she was a little understanding but I was like a kid in a candy shop dressing all the time and she reined that in real quick. Fast forward and we have had a few big blow ups over the years because she caught me dressed or she was putting stuff away in my drawers and saw my frilly panties and bras ect, didn’t like my belly button ring (have had it for about 15 years but can never wear it around her) and yesterday massive blow up because I had shaved my legs again after telling her I wouldn’t shave them a few months ago because she was embarrassed to be seen with me outside the house and didn’t want to have to try and explain my shaved legs, my double piercings in each ear with diamond studs in. Anyway it was a shit day, lots of back and forth, lots of “I will never stay married to you if you decide you want to dress and live like a female…. I married a man and I don’t even see you as my husband anymore”…..
anyhow a my quandary is this…. On Monday morning (prior to this blind sided argument) I finally got my first appointment to start the HRT journey and my appointment is next Wednesday. Now I had always intended on doing this appointment, next appointment and hopefully start on my treatment and my thought was that I would just start with Spiro at 150-200mg a day because this is a common drug for use with high cholesterol which I have and any changes to my body could easily be attributed to this drug and not that fact that I have started hrt treatment (although I will be guided by the doc if I should still take some Estrogen) . I figured this would start me along on my journey and in a few months I would come out and tell my wife I am trans, not a cross dresser anymore. I had an inkling that she wouldn’t accept it/me doing this and she confirmed this multiple times yesterday and I’m ok with that….. if the marriage is going to fall apart because of this then so be it but…… I wasn’t going to tell her for a few months because it’s her birthday tomorrow, we are going on a short holiday in 4 weeks with 2 of the kids and I have a big exam coming up in about 9 weeks and now I am really worried I am doing the wrong thing continuing in with my appointment and starting treatment. If the marriage breaks up (I hope it doesn’t but I really have little hope after yesterday) I’m going to be ok, we both will be. I will have more than enough money to get my FFS done asap, more than enough money to everything I need to do to live and transition. I can’t stay living like this (a woman trapped in a man’s body). What should I do? Cancel my appointment and organise it at a later date or should I continue with the appointment and hopefully her past the next 6 weeks and then tell her.
u/PrincessLisaMckenzie — 1 month ago
Feeling a little cute today.
At home cleaning the house while the wife is at work. I know I’m a long way off passing and haven’t had much chance to practice my makeup techniques but I feel eventually I will be able to pass. Yet to start HRT (I just need to make an appointment and get it started) and going to start growing my hair out. Ohhhh and I went and shaved my legs again today 🫢🤫 Don’t tell my wife. She hated that i was shaving my legs all the time and I have stopped for the past 4 months or so. I just love the feels. 😍. Hope you all have a wonderful weekend.
u/PrincessLisaMckenzie — 1 month ago
▲ 36 r/transgenderau
Not sure how I’m ever going to pass but I’m going to have fun doing it 😍
Driving home in a bra and pink T-shirt today. Yesterday a dress. Early start tomorrow so might see what I can wear to work in the dark hours. Cannot wait for the day I no longer have to hide who I am.
u/PrincessLisaMckenzie — 1 month ago