31F dating 29M — relationship issues over lying, bars, and boundaries

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I’ve been having some issues with this guy, he’s trying to make it in his music career / dream, I’ve known him for 15 years, he’s not making any money with this, he loses his security jobs, he has nothing really that positive to say, the first 4 days we were dating I found out some lies he was telling me, things he kept from me, like I kissed him to find out he was drinking with his friends, after telling him I don’t want him drinking and driving especially in the car with him, he still was following his ex then got upset with me when I asked him to remove a follower , he’s claiming these girls who dress and post really nasty posts are “helping” his music promoting, but they’re not doing anything for his music
When I tell him what’s wrong he always says “why are you being a brat, why are you grumpy, why are you mad now, what did I do” once I tell him he gets super winny and starts explaining that makes me look like I might be overlooking something
The other night he went to 2 bars, while he was at the first bar I was telling him I didn’t like that he was there, but then he went to a second bar even though I didn’t want him to go.
I have tried breaking up with him, he won’t let me he says I’m over exaggerating , he will fix it, but nothing changes
Last night I felt something weird and off but he told me everything was fine but I’m usually right about these energy shifts, then he love bombs or overly says he loves me and he’ll stop and do whatever he needs to do, please, why not, all that. It’s annoying and idk what to do??

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u/Princess_ftp_cod — 1 month ago

I need a lot of advise for this new relationship I’ve been struggling with

Scorpio women with Scorpio man

I’ve been having some issues with this guy, he’s trying to make it in his music career / dream, I’ve known him for 15 years, he’s not making any money with this, he loses his security jobs, he has nothing really that positive to say, the first 4 days we were dating I found out some lies he was telling me, things he kept from me, like I kissed him to find out he was drinking with his friends, after telling him I don’t want him drinking and driving especially in the car with him, he still was following his ex then got upset with me when I asked him to remove a follower , he’s claiming these girls who dress and post really nasty posts are “helping” his music promoting, but they’re not doing anything for his music
When I tell him what’s wrong he always says “why are you being a brat, why are you grumpy, why are you mad now, what did I do” once I tell him he gets super winny and starts explaining that makes me look like I might be overlooking something
The other night he went to 2 bars, while he was at the first bar I was telling him I didn’t like that he was there, but then he went to a second bar even though I didn’t want him to go.
I have tried breaking up with him, he won’t let me he says I’m over exaggerating , he will fix it, but nothing changes
Last night I felt something weird and off but he told me everything was fine but I’m usually right about these energy shifts, then he love bombs or overly says he loves me and he’ll stop and do whatever he needs to do, please, why not, all that. It’s annoying and idk what to do

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u/Princess_ftp_cod — 1 month ago