u/Prior-Age4675

Near-death experience that I experienced during my catastrophic motorcycle collision: it felt like having this strange sensation that something was on your face bothering you while you were alone in the house, yet there was nothing actually wrong with your face. Then someone removes the VR headset from you, and you suddenly realise that the “reality” or life we live is inside that headset, but only about 5% of actual reality exists inside this VR — aka the life we live compared to the post-death reality.

Outside of it, you exist in this overwhelming state of love, peace, and abundance. Then, when you’re brought back (CPR or otherwise), you kind of understand that you need to put this terrible 5% reality VR headset back on again in order to return. Once you return, you realise there are no real words capable of describing the remaining 95% that feels missing from the life we live here.

This is also a phenomenon where a lot of people who have experienced NDEs end up depressed or didn’t want to return. Some people have even sued healthcare providers or others who saved their lives with CPR, for example. Even people who have partners and kids, and explicitly say they love their family and would do anything for them, have said that after experiencing an NDE they wanted to stay on the other side and didn’t want to come back. That has nothing to do with how their lives are, but because it feels like you traversed into this next reality and just want to stay there and understand more.

Near-death experience that I experienced during my catastrophic motorcycle collision: it felt like having this strange sensation that something was on your face bothering you while you were alone in the house, yet there was nothing actually wrong with your face. Then someone removes the VR headset from you, and you suddenly realise that the “reality” or life we live is inside that headset, but only about 5% of actual reality exists inside this VR — aka the life we live compared to the post-death reality.

Outside of it, you exist in this overwhelming state of love, peace, and abundance. Then, when you’re brought back (CPR or otherwise), you kind of understand that you need to put this terrible 5% reality VR headset back on again in order to return. Once you return, you realise there are no real words capable of describing the remaining 95% that feels missing from the life we live here.

This is also a phenomenon where a lot of people who have experienced NDEs end up depressed or didn’t want to return. Some people have even sued healthcare providers or others who saved their lives with CPR, for example. Even people who have partners and kids, and explicitly say they love their family and would do anything for them, have said that after experiencing an NDE they wanted to stay on the other side and didn’t want to come back. That has nothing to do with how their lives are, but because it feels like you traversed into this next reality and just want to stay there and understand more.

Cooling gel topper?

We have fairly good mattress in sense of firmness but we both are hot sleepers so need something to cool us down, we run 2 side fans by our bed and in summer full mobile ac for room m

also maybe need either hotel or cooling pillows but we can’t find any decent ones - have now mix of all weird ones from soft to hard to memory byt heat is problem - any ideas?

had Og 1990s cone maker machine that didn’t die and was abused and unfortunately due to moving we lost it

🥥I had horrible motorcycle accident year+ ago and broke femur in half, pelvis both sides, wrist (reconstruction required) and fractured spine, collarbone and other organ damage and large parts of body sustained nerve damage including brachia plexis for dominant arm …

🍓unfortunately after regaining some ability to walk during year i had horrible nerve pain and leg swelling after trying to walk or weight bear on that leg - ive bad to go back and forth with doctors about issues and i kept given news of “it will take time” or ”here more morphine “ and ”here gabapetin” - ultimately after argument i end up being sent to private clinic where lovely staff diagnosed with non union for femur and i was put immediately up for emergency surgery thats due any day now.

▫️I was hoping that this 2nd surgery will be less damaging than the original one and I could try walk asap but doctor explained that it will need to to take out old titanium rod and screws (screws were also loose nor sure, perhaps due to me trying so hard in physiotherapies i caused it?) —- drill wider hole where my bone marrow used to be and insert larger/wider titanium rod , new screws and perhaps new plate to assist with support.

i heard people talking about bone grafting / grinding from other bones and sprinkle that material where nonunion for faster healing — not sure if this is used in uk/eu or just usa?

🫜also heard of bone stimulators = anyone had experience with these, especially in UK?

thank you in advance for your input!