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John Eccles: The Nobel Neuroscientist Who Proved the Soul Exists. Sir John Eccles — the Nobel Prize-winning neurophysiologist who discovered how neurons communicate — spent the second half of his career arguing, on strictly scientific grounds, that the mind cannot be identified with the brain. His "dualist-interactionist" model proposed that the self-conscious mind is a non-material entity that interacts with the brain through quantum-level influences on synaptic transmission. Eccles was not a mystic or a theologian — he was the world's leading expert on how neurons work, and he concluded that this knowledge pointed unavoidably toward the existence of an immaterial soul.

"The Nobel Prize winner who literally discovered how the brain works spent his final years using that knowledge to prove the brain cannot explain you — and that therefore you have a soul."

I had my NDE in 2020 and have been undergoing a sort of living afterlife ever since : Very heavy on the life review and impeccability aspect. My karma is nearly instant and my life demands near perfection from me, or else things turn very fast - instant accountability.

I believe this is part of the physics of a "final life" deal but I'm also becoming crippled by it - constantly scanning myself for slip-ups and feeling generally stuck and helpless in life - it's in the hands of a higher power ... and I'm sort of tired of this reality. Especially as the higher power just continually tests me to my limits : patience, humility, strength, endurance, blah blah blah. Few rewards. Lots of trials. Lots of being alone in a world that pushes against every step I take.

I get the negative feedback amply but positive feedback is withheld - no one is saying "good job you're a great person" only "you should have held your tongue in that one moment" etc etc.

Whatever I put out, however good it is, I feel like all I get back is just enough to survive - crumbs and critique

What's your experience here? Thoughts? Am I causing this? How can I break this loop?

Really love this page but can someone please explain the meaning of your acronyms? I don’t see anywhere on community info for OBE for example?

Could a MOD please add these acronyms and meaning somewhere or show me where I can find it as to avoid this for other users.

Hey everyone, I lurk on this subreddit a lot, and I was really curious to see what the members of r/NDE believe about the true nature of these experiences. Obviously I assume the majority will skew primarily spiritual, but I'd also like to see how many in this subreddit have actually experienced an NDE. Thanks everyone. (remove if necessary)

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Hi all. I've been doing a lot of reading about NDEs this past week, and it's been causing me a lot of anxiety (thanks, OCD). I've always been vaguely spiritual, but never thought seriously about consciousness or the afterlife until now. I would really like it if there was something after death, but I can't help but question everything. I've been reading a lot of old posts and comments on this sub, and just about every materialist explanation seems to get thoroughly debunked-except for ketamine.

The arguments I've seen against ketamine are: "You wouldn't remember the trip as vividly"; "you'd still be tripping when you woke up"; "it would be a negative experience"; and "that wouldn't account for out of body experiences". However, I have seen comments from people who've tried ketamine refuting these objections, saying their experiences with K were identical to NDEs. I've even seen people claim that the ultimate K trip does not require brain activity-just like NDEs.

Then again, I've seen statements that contradict the contradictions. I also saw someone claim that the original author of the ketamine theory debunked or abandoned it? Is that true? Also, I know that ketamine is used in anesthesia, which seems to support the theory that they cause NDEs-but has there ever been a verified NDE that happened without anesthesia?

Sorry if this is long and rambly; my anxiety is just through the roof right now. Like I said, I really want there to be something after death, but the ketamine explanation seems pretty foolproof. Is there a simple "silver bullet" debunking the claim "ketamine causes NDEs"? Or do we just not know? Thanks in advance.

Have any NDEs explored this? What happens if a biological line ends...

I’ve been sitting with a passage from a contact narrative that feels strangely adjacent to things people here often report from NDEs — especially life reviews, the sense that the body is a temporary tool, and the idea that consciousness continues in order to learn.

In the account, the narrator is shown a series of his own past lives. I will quote from the book for the beings’ explanation below:

>We wanted to show you your past lives, that you might notice they vary, as though they were attached to a wheel. Because a wheel is made to turn, any point on it that is on top will soon be at the bottom—it is inevitable, do you see?

>“One day you are a beggar, and then you can be a queen, such as Labinola, who, of course, was not only at the top of the wheel but also learned a lot and greatly helped others. And yet, in many cases, a beggar will learn as much as a king, and in some instances, he will learn much more.

>“When you were an ascetic in the mountains, you assisted many more individuals than in most of your other lives. What counts most is not appearances, but what is behind them.

>“When your astral body takes on another physical body, it is, quite simply, to learn more, and even more . . .

>“As we have explained to you, it is for the sake of your higher self. It is a process of continual refinement, which can occur just as effectively in the body of a beggar as in that of a king or a miner. The physical body is but a tool. A sculptor’s chisel and hammer are tools; they will never reach beauty on their own, but they contribute to it in the hands of an artist. A wonderful statue could not have been created with the artist’s bare hands.

>“You should always bear in mind this main point: An astral body, in all cases must conform to Universal Law, and by following nature as closely as possible, it can achieve the ultimate goal by the fastest path.”

What struck me, reading it against NDE literature, is how close some of this sits to recurring elements many experiencers describe:

• Continuity of consciousness beyond one body
• Life review / panoramic understanding of what a life actually taught
• The relative unimportance of status or appearance compared with inner development
• The sense that the “real” self is refining something across experiences rather than being extinguished

The larger book (Thiaoouba Prophecy) frames itself as a physical contact account rather than an NDE, and it goes into a lot of other territory (cosmology, ancient history, civilizational warnings). I’m not here to argue it is the same phenomenon as an NDE. I’m curious whether anyone else has run across contact or out-of-body material that treats reincarnation and the “wheel” of roles in a way that felt continuous with their own NDE or NDE-adjacent experiences.

Does this kind of past-life / refinement framing resonate with what you’ve read or experienced, or does it feel like a different category entirely?

(Interested in genuine comparison, not conversion, and the consciousness piece here.)

First I want to say that in general I believe in NDEs, but there are a few things that make me feel doubtful sometimes.

One thing is that people always say that they suddenly find themselves floating directly above themselves, near the ceiling. Usually, it’s about ten meters away from the body.

Why do they never float to the left or right of their body, or stand behind it or underneath it? Why does there seem to be this kind of law that, when you’re floating, you’re always somehow above yourself?

I know, for example, that DMT hasn’t been proven to be involved to this day. And I also think the DMT explanation is pretty ridiculous. Overall, like I said, I do believe in NDEs.

I just find it so strange that people always seem to be hovering about ten meters directly above their body, because that sounds so mathematically precise. If the soul leaves the body, it should theoretically be able to see the body from anywhere, rather than necessarily from above.

I’d really like a spiritual explanation for how this could be understood, so I can feel more assured about NDEs.

Thank you 🙏

This was not an NDE. It came during a deep trance Soul Journey, so I am sharing it as an STE because the part after death was what stayed with me.

The subject entered another lifetime as a woman living mostly away from town. She worked with plants, remedies and things people around her would probably have called dangerous or forbidden. She had already learned to keep that side of herself hidden because she felt the townspeople could turn against her.

Then she met a man who seemed genuinely interested in her. She had been alone for long time and wanted to trust somebody, so she told him much more than she normally would. During the experience she slowly realized he was not as genuine as she first believed and had another agenda.

What followed pushed her into fear and eventually she left everything behind. She rode away, found another town and made herself ordinary. She found work where travelers stopped, cooked and served people, told almost nobody about her past and kept thinking that eventually she would return to the life that felt true to her.

But eventually became more than 20 years.

She was safe there. That was the strange part. Nothing terrible was happening anymore, but she still lived as if danger was right behind her. She described herself as comfortable but not happy, much older now and regretting that she had stayed so long because fear convinced her it was too late to leave.

Finally she did leave. She went back to the old isolated house, cleared away what had grown around it and began living more according to herself again. She stayed there until she was very old.

Then the session moved to the moment after death.

From outside the body, she did not focus mainly on the man who betrayed her or on what the townspeople had done. What she felt most strongly was how many years she had spent not being true to herself after the danger was already over.

When I asked what the purpose of that lifetime had been, the answer was very simple: dont live in fear. Fear will keep you limited. Be careful with people and trust your instincts, but dont let fear decide the whole life.

Later, when Higher Self came through, the reason for seeing this lifetime became clearer. The same pattern was active in the present life around being seen, being heard and not being accepted.

I keep thinking about the perspective shift after death. During life, the betrayal looked like the major event. From the wider perspective, the bigger loss was all the living that stopped afterward.

Maybe this is one reason life reviews and after-death perspectives can feel so different from our normal human judgment. We focus on what was done to us. From the larger view, another question appears: what did we allow that event to decide about the rest of our life?

I lost my partner a few years ago. A couple nights ago he came to me in a dream, and I rarely dream. He kissed me, asked me if I still loved him. I was so happy, and remember thinking “I can’t believe you’re really real”, before I remembered he was dead, and then I woke up. The weird part was he was with his brother, who seemed bored and like he was just waiting for his brother to finish his errand with me. I had a gut feeling, so I googled his brother, and he died two weeks ago.

I want to believe the dream was really him. I hadn’t felt that feeling of being so in love in so long. And I’m devastated that he’s gone. For a long time, i used to see signs of his presence around but they tapered off a bit. For those who had NDEs, is there anything you can tell me about people who greeted you? Did you have the choice to stay or go? Is it possible he was greeting his brother and decided to stop by to say hi to me?

Anything you can offer me that would help me believe he was really here would be appreciated. I miss him so much.

I don’t know if it’s okay to post this here as this wasn’t necessarily an “NDE”. But I still wanted to share and talk about my experience. Who knows, maybe me sharing this experience can help put somebody at ease about whether or not there even is an afterlife? Only time will tell.

When I went to bed last night, I had a dream of Heaven. It was a short dream, but I remember almost every detail. The first thing I noticed when I “arrived” was that it was bright. Like VERY bright. Even brighter than the Sun. But it didn’t irritate my eyes. There was a “Sun” or a bright light in the sky, but it wasn’t like the Sun that we have here.

The second thing I noticed when I looked down, was the grass. The grass was beautiful. It was somehow more green than the green grass we have here on Earth. It looked both wild but perfectly manicured at the same time. There were flowers there too, and they were all types of different colors.

Off in the distance I saw trees, and next to those trees, I saw people. They were all wearing white robes, I believe. But, of course, I was too far away to see what they were saying to each other. One person, a child, ran up to me and gestured for me to come join them. I have no idea who this girl is or was, but she was very kind.

And just like that, I woke up in my bed. Having no idea why I experienced this dream, but feeling very grateful that I did.

I’ve spent the last few years watching and reading NDEs, and I’ve always wondered what the afterlife is like. So to actually have seen it with my own eyes, makes me incredibly joyous.

Are there reports of NDEs where the experiencer saw their own funeral?

Instagram video of near death experience translated from Arabic:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DcBvCpJsSsw/?l=1

The comments are FULL of those who have experienced the same. Love, light, beautiful worlds, vividness, feeling of knowing there’s an afterlife.

It’s so interesting that the same words are repeated in all languages “it’s not your time” and that the tunnel and the light and the deceased loved ones stay constant. This can’t be a coincidence or a trick of the brain.

There's quite a few NDEs where someone reports seeing a relative who had some kind of physical impairment in life and they see them whole and complete. For example, someone might report seeing Auntie Doris who was in a wheelchair during the end of her life but is upright and walking in the spirit. I've also heard at least some NDErs saying their tattoos weren't with them in spirit (would be interested if any NDE reports where the opposite is reported!).

I realise that there are other far more amazing things to focus on in the moment, but it does make me wonder, what about other more subtle things? Some of these might only be observed by the NDEr about themselves rather than observed in others, but for example:

• Do circumcised males have foreskins?
• Do people with less than straight teeth (in life) have straight teeth (in spirit)?
• Do people with earring piercings still have the hole?
• Do people who had breast implants return to their natural breast size, or keep their existing?
• Do routinely shaved legs become unshaven?

You might say that appearance is just however the soul chooses to represent itself, but people finding their tattoos aren't with them suggests a slightly more complex picture.

Interested in either reports from people here who've had NDEs, OR links to NDE accounts where details to this miniscule level are included.

My father died in 1998 and my brother in 2000. I was 8 when my father passed away. They were obviously tragic losses for the family, but we're a very large family and if anything we came out of it even closer than before.

The strange part is that I have NEVER dreamed about either of them. With one big exception.

A few years after he died, my brother appeared to me in a dream. The setting was a forest in the Alps, where we live. It was all very direct. I asked him: "So, in the end — is there something after, or not?"

He answered me, literally: "There is, there is. Don't worry."

At the time I didn't give the dream much weight, I just filed it away as a dream. But as time has gone by I've thought about it more and more, especially because it's the one and only time either of my two lost loved ones has ever appeared to me in a dream.

Anyone had a similar experience?