u/Pristine-Algae9831

So im a type of person who loves being on my own nd also enjoying a bit of socialising aswell and I have heard people sayin radiographers just see the patient do wht they want to and thts it ik we need to talk a bit to the patients but i don't think its much with ur colleagues innit? I hv done some shadowing nd have noticed them just doin their work nd goin home but talkin a bit in between asw?

Any realistic NHS thoughts??

So I applied for diagnostic radiography 2026 intake but unfortunately didn't get accepted.I was planning to reapply for 2027 Sept intake so I was wondering if I should make a new personal statement or am I allowed to use the one I used for 2026 intake?It's the one I created but universities have seen it already and I have attended interviews aswell so will that be a problem using the same personal statement for 2027?

Any thoughts?

So I used to be really good friends with my boyfriend's ex girlfriend and people used to literally call us inseparable,evide aval indo njanum inde.But after i started this relationship I started talking less with her cuz in my pov it doesn't feel right to talk with her idk why she my bois ex.But people started noticing it alot and started asking why(btw our relationship is private and even this ex doesn't know abt it)I'm confused now idk if I should start talking with her or should I go and do what i feel like doing?

I mentioned this issue with my bf and he said for the sake of others to talk with her like in a formal way and not like before,tbh I find it hard and hv thsi discomfort talking with her tho.i do ignore her these days and don't face her alot.

What shouldd I doo😭

It started before I joined college,I met a guy on a bus trip and the trip was like 4hrs long.I have seen this guy before two or three times but had these small talks with him,more like a acquaintance.Then during this bus trip we ended up sitting together and talked alot that whole night,Idk wht really happened that night I felt something different inside me,I liked him really well as a friend and thought of exchanging insta ids. And then after that day we started texting almost everyday,it ended up late night texts,we used to see each other once or twice every week but didn't talk much irl but idk somehow we had this connection.i always used to say him he was my comfort person.

And then we started college and he ended up being in my same college,I knew we both applied there but it was not of any other romantic interest from his side obv(I started having feelings for him at this point and I was really obsessed)and then another mutual friend of us joined in the same college and became a trio like we 3 used to have our own world we never talked or made new friends with others and 1st year went by,I thought I only had feelings for him one sided cuz I knew he was a person who will deffo confess if he had anything.

1st year finished,we 3 were inseparable in others view cuz ppl always sees us together anghane and then 2nd year started he changed house and now we used to walk together to our houses before he used to go home with tht other girl in our trio.idk I have felt multiple times tht they both had something between them but always thought it was just me making up stuff and I also refused to think in that way cuz I liked him and I don't want to even think any other girls liking him.

And then months passed,I started noticing a distance between that guy and the girl but yh obv I ignored it and I always acted normal when we three were chatting.He started being less talkative and ifk felt a distance towards me from his side asw.

And then one random day when we were walking together he said he had something to say,I was a but hopeful,but then he said he and that girl in our trio was in a relationship even before college started and they broke up now. And I was just there so numb to even speak,I was so confused cuz obv Ik its their right to choose whether to share it publicly or not but I was there with them the while time and I didn't knew they were dating made me go insane idk I felt really devastated.i went to a park,cried alott,came home texted him saying to end our friendship cuz idk felt like saying tht

He was asking me why shoukd we end ours,tbh I was so confused and didn't knew wht to say,in a way I felt backstabbed idk why anyways I then confessed saying I liked him and then he goes like "if u still like me" idk I was confused I didn't say anything we didn't talk for other 2 days and then he starred to talk randomly and then I asked him to stop pretending like everything's fine.

And that day we talked alot,he said he likes me now and he thinks ours can get into a serious relationship,he started talkin about marrying asw.im really confused,the thing is I like him but he's basically my friends ex,and for me he cheated me cuz he hid their relationship from me.idk wht im doin is right but I agreed to he in a relationship,its been 3 months but sometimes I feel this ick and everyt kicks in idk whether I shoukd continue this relationship or not?

HELPP