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Anyone help? Ob or other.

Anyone ever experience tears during sex? Specifically at the 6 o clock entrance on the posterio8r fourchette? I am wondering if anyone else has gone through this and it NOT be lichen sclerosis. Did it ever heal?

I have been getting tears during sex for the last 2 years, but not every time. Ive been married a long time and it never happened in the past that I am aware of. The tear does not hurt but it feels like a hair is poking me and i can feel the skin being pulled. Afterwards i check and there is a small tear or rather rug burn looking area. Rarely, does it spot a tiny amount of blood. It only happens in certain positions and not every time. it will be healed within 1 or 2 days. by day 3 its usually totally gone. doesnt hurt to pee or wipe or anything else. its so weird!

We have started uberlube and its been helping but im scared to try a different position from what has been working for us.

I saw my obgyn when it started and she said lube and aquaohor. I didnt start lube but did do the aquaphor. It kept happening from time to time so at my next annual she prescribed estrogen topical cream. I am terrified to use it. She said she does not see signs of LS and she did a thorough exam both times.

Ugh im at a loss. I am scared its LS. i just need to get over my fear and start the estrogen. Just wanted to hear from others if anyone else has experienced this.

TIA!

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u/Pristine-Quote-4872 — 6 hours ago

Tearing durinf sex

Anyone ever experience tears during sex? Specifically at the 6 o clock entrance on the posterio8r fourchette? I am wondering if anyone else has gone through this and it NOT be lichen sclerosis. Did it ever heal?

I have been getting tears during sex for the last 2 years, but not every time. Ive been married a long time and it never happened in the past that I am aware of. The tear does not hurt but it feels like a hair is poking me and i can feel the skin being pulled. Afterwards i check and there is a small tear or rather rug burn looking area. Rarely, does it spot a tiny amount of blood. It only happens in certain positions and not every time. it will be healed within 1 or 2 days. by day 3 its usually totally gone. doesnt hurt to pee or wipe or anything else. its so weird!

We have started uberlube and its been helping but im scared to try a different position from what has been working for us.

I saw my obgyn when it started and she said lube and aquaohor. I didnt start lube but did do the aquaphor. It kept happening from time to time so at my next annual she prescribed estrogen topical cream. I am terrified to use it. She said she does not see signs of LS and she did a thorough exam both times.

Ugh im at a loss. I am scared its LS. i just need to get over my fear and start the estrogen. Just wanted to hear from others if anyone else has experienced this.

TIA!

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u/Pristine-Quote-4872 — 15 hours ago

Loved Epic! Universal studios florida not so much.

First time ever. Epic was awesome. We got fast passes and rode everything with 0 wait. I guess we got lucky as well as crowds were minimal everywhere we went. Food was good. No rain. People were friendly and welcoming. Couldnt have asked for a better time. Yes, it was hot, but wasnt a big deal for us.

2nd day we did universal studios florida and it was a bust. Crowds were good. Rides had no wait times, but the vibe of the park was bad. The people working there werent helpful and just downright rude. Felt like i shouldnt have been there as i was interupting their day. Happened with multiple people in multiple areas. Couldnt get water in Simpsons area as it was being guarded by some lady yelling at everyone about refills. I just needed water lol. Anyways, epic was great, the old park, not so much. If we went back we would try IOA instead!

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u/Pristine-Quote-4872 — 16 days ago